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That is true. I am having the kind of 'assume the worst' type of mentality going on here. Maybe that is because I've been exposed to a lot of negative cheating stories lately. I also feel like I have to address these issues now since they are definitely affecting our relationship. Do you have any advice on how to approach this?
The amount of people who ask questions like “how do I get my delusional waste-of-atoms husband who wants to change a fundamental and healthy part of me to fulfill his sexual fantasies to not leave me” on this sub is sickening like are you freaking kidding me. I have no advice apart from get some self respect. Jfc
If a man told me that another man had it out for him, I’d believe him. Same goes for other women. OP is in the situation and she probably knows better than us. When it comes to women’s behavior I typically believe other women over men as many men wouldn’t realize they were being pursued until she sits in his lap. My partner is very attractive and this occasionally happens to him. We’re in a much better place than OP and we usually laugh about it when it happens, but he almost never sees it coming until they make a blatant move, whereas I do. I don’t worry because we trust each other, but I think it’s a lot easier to see because I have done many of the things myself in my own pursuits. Women pursue more subtly for the most part.
Personally, I don’t think most 22 year olds are very interested in making friends with a colleague a decade their senior. Can you see a 22 year old man trying to text and hang out alone with a 32 year old female colleague? In addition as a colleague you would usually take no for an answer the first time you asked him to dinner for fear you’d cross a boundary. I can’t imagine continuing to ask, liking every single post except their partner, or messaging him privately out of hours. I wouldn’t message any work colleague at 4am either – that’s super unprofessional.
Girl, if you would have had the easiest birth in the world, you’d still be dealing with a lazy ass absent husband and father and you’d be still saying you never want to have kids with him. So it’s not the trauma, it’s your husband who is worthless and a total twatwaffle. You aren’t acting crazy or anything. He sounds like a nightmare and even before you gave birth. At this point you’d be less stressed as a divorced single mom.
That makes me wonder if the first one was real, and the second one was made up and they kept the details the same to make people think it was part of the same story. For karma or for fun? I don't know.
Who cares about a hypothetical future relationship he might have one day. Your self esteem should be your focus. He has you thinking you aren’t good enough. May I suggest therapy for yourself? It seems like your self-worth is contingent on his obsession with you. He’s giving you the WRONG kind of attention. This is a toxic relationship. Please talk to a professional. I think you aren’t seeing things from a healthy perspective.
That is true. I am having the kind of 'assume the worst' type of mentality going on here. Maybe that is because I've been exposed to a lot of negative cheating stories lately. I also feel like I have to address these issues now since they are definitely affecting our relationship. Do you have any advice on how to approach this?
Why? There's no way to “de-escalate” situations with violent people and enablers. Next time you could get a concussion or be choked to death.
The amount of people who ask questions like “how do I get my delusional waste-of-atoms husband who wants to change a fundamental and healthy part of me to fulfill his sexual fantasies to not leave me” on this sub is sickening like are you freaking kidding me. I have no advice apart from get some self respect. Jfc
If a man told me that another man had it out for him, I’d believe him. Same goes for other women. OP is in the situation and she probably knows better than us. When it comes to women’s behavior I typically believe other women over men as many men wouldn’t realize they were being pursued until she sits in his lap. My partner is very attractive and this occasionally happens to him. We’re in a much better place than OP and we usually laugh about it when it happens, but he almost never sees it coming until they make a blatant move, whereas I do. I don’t worry because we trust each other, but I think it’s a lot easier to see because I have done many of the things myself in my own pursuits. Women pursue more subtly for the most part.
Personally, I don’t think most 22 year olds are very interested in making friends with a colleague a decade their senior. Can you see a 22 year old man trying to text and hang out alone with a 32 year old female colleague? In addition as a colleague you would usually take no for an answer the first time you asked him to dinner for fear you’d cross a boundary. I can’t imagine continuing to ask, liking every single post except their partner, or messaging him privately out of hours. I wouldn’t message any work colleague at 4am either – that’s super unprofessional.
Was going to also suggest this. We had the same situation and they totally took care of it and no lice remained. They usually guarantee it.
Girl, if you would have had the easiest birth in the world, you’d still be dealing with a lazy ass absent husband and father and you’d be still saying you never want to have kids with him. So it’s not the trauma, it’s your husband who is worthless and a total twatwaffle. You aren’t acting crazy or anything. He sounds like a nightmare and even before you gave birth. At this point you’d be less stressed as a divorced single mom.
That makes me wonder if the first one was real, and the second one was made up and they kept the details the same to make people think it was part of the same story. For karma or for fun? I don't know.
Who cares about a hypothetical future relationship he might have one day. Your self esteem should be your focus. He has you thinking you aren’t good enough. May I suggest therapy for yourself? It seems like your self-worth is contingent on his obsession with you. He’s giving you the WRONG kind of attention. This is a toxic relationship. Please talk to a professional. I think you aren’t seeing things from a healthy perspective.
I'm willing to re build trust with him because I love him
Oh boy. This is going to go badly…
Love isn't enough. Love is not respect, kindness, trust, and affection. Those are what make a good relationship, not “love.”