I’m all about personal accountability and I can admit that sometimes I have my toxic tendencies and I’m a bit over protective of myself due to previous about and trauma , have complex ptsd from my childhood as well. But these were things they were aware of when they started being with me and even agreed to move 4000 miles away from home and start a life with me .
Almost like police can't take critique cause they know their profession is systemically fucked up and evil and that they are active perpetrators of said fucked up evil
This kind of opinion indicates someone who thinks of women as purely visual things for him to look at and not whole people with their own lives and goals. Mans a misogynist, and youre not going to be the exception.
I am writing this with so much concern for you! Please seek counseling and seriously consider leaving this man. It really sounds like your past trauma has affected your self esteem to the point that you can’t see how awful your husband is. I think maybe you were drawn to someone who is unkind to you, even abusive, because you feel deep down that you don’t deserve better. You DO! You deserve unconditional love and support! Please, please get yourself some help and leave this man !
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I’m all about personal accountability and I can admit that sometimes I have my toxic tendencies and I’m a bit over protective of myself due to previous about and trauma , have complex ptsd from my childhood as well. But these were things they were aware of when they started being with me and even agreed to move 4000 miles away from home and start a life with me .
if I should seek help for my mental issues
Yes. You should seek help. Do you really need a bunch of strangers to tell you this?
Almost like police can't take critique cause they know their profession is systemically fucked up and evil and that they are active perpetrators of said fucked up evil
This made me gag.
This kind of opinion indicates someone who thinks of women as purely visual things for him to look at and not whole people with their own lives and goals. Mans a misogynist, and youre not going to be the exception.
Fire. Them. All.
I am writing this with so much concern for you! Please seek counseling and seriously consider leaving this man. It really sounds like your past trauma has affected your self esteem to the point that you can’t see how awful your husband is. I think maybe you were drawn to someone who is unkind to you, even abusive, because you feel deep down that you don’t deserve better. You DO! You deserve unconditional love and support! Please, please get yourself some help and leave this man !
This is fair and I was being dumb. I appreciate the very hot truth and the wake up call!