Please stop wasting her time and break up with her. You have some serious work to do on your self before you should be in a relationship. You should be over the moon that this wonderful woman spends her time with you.
Omg this is ridiculous!!! You do not like social media. She needs to leave you alone. She wants to fuel her fragile ego with the social media bull crap. I cannot believe she is on your case about something so dumb. Social media has successfully brain washed her. Yuck.
Aside from the left out info (ie: been together 6 yrs/family relationship with boyfriend/is this a sudden change of heart or not, etc), here's something you truly need to think honestly and brutally about. I am not trying to be a killjoy, but these are things folks don't think about when marrying men much older than oneself because they are in love.
Your boyfriend is at the ripe age of health going sideways. Like prostate cancer=no more sex at all if he needs a prostatectomy because he will be unable to get an erection or hold in urine as before. Vascular issues like strokes or heart attacks = possible loss of limb function, instability, speech impediments all requiring care to some degree. Does cancer run in the family? Bowel cancer=possible poop bag, Bladder cancer=possible pee bag, Spinal issues=possible chronic pain/canes/walkers/wheelchair. Does dementia or Alzheimers run in the family=24hr/7day care as they being to loose their memory and abilities to perform simple tasks.
Yes, we are all prone to these issues, however do you see yourself as a nurse maid and instead of a wife? Because that what you become. All those fun adventures & activities you wanted to do, nope.
The younger spouse ends up spending their freedom years tied to the house & hospital.
What?
Agree – he owed/owes you an apology and I would have slept on the couch.
Please stop wasting her time and break up with her. You have some serious work to do on your self before you should be in a relationship. You should be over the moon that this wonderful woman spends her time with you.
God damn man, first you’re thinking about forgiving her now you don’t want to get payback? You’re lost
Omg this is ridiculous!!! You do not like social media. She needs to leave you alone. She wants to fuel her fragile ego with the social media bull crap. I cannot believe she is on your case about something so dumb. Social media has successfully brain washed her. Yuck.
Aside from the left out info (ie: been together 6 yrs/family relationship with boyfriend/is this a sudden change of heart or not, etc), here's something you truly need to think honestly and brutally about. I am not trying to be a killjoy, but these are things folks don't think about when marrying men much older than oneself because they are in love.
Your boyfriend is at the ripe age of health going sideways. Like prostate cancer=no more sex at all if he needs a prostatectomy because he will be unable to get an erection or hold in urine as before. Vascular issues like strokes or heart attacks = possible loss of limb function, instability, speech impediments all requiring care to some degree. Does cancer run in the family? Bowel cancer=possible poop bag, Bladder cancer=possible pee bag, Spinal issues=possible chronic pain/canes/walkers/wheelchair. Does dementia or Alzheimers run in the family=24hr/7day care as they being to loose their memory and abilities to perform simple tasks.
Yes, we are all prone to these issues, however do you see yourself as a nurse maid and instead of a wife? Because that what you become. All those fun adventures & activities you wanted to do, nope.
The younger spouse ends up spending their freedom years tied to the house & hospital.
I'm not a fan of giving oral. When I say I'm a pillow princess unfortunately I mean it ahaha…
Yes, it's a red flag and he has no intentions to keep his promises.
Block, delete, next time he shows up call the police
The elderly, too. They're brutal ?