You don’t necessarily have to leave her behind. She’s 23, it’s up to her. If you give her the option to stay with you she might take it. At the very least it’s her decision as an adult whether to keep you in her life no matter what her dad has to say about it. He can’t do jack.
Lying is lying. Lying is associated with cheating. You knew what her issues were and you went with the worst possible decision to feed into her insecurities. It’s up to her if she wants to stay on. It would probably be best if she were single and work through her past trauma with therapy. You were no help. She is not ready for a relationship, especially with someone that blatantly lies to her.
Go out and have fun for yourself. You don't need anyone to have fun.
Mate I’m not pining over a women I’ve known for 12 weeks who doesn’t want me but go off.
Shio told me about it after work on Friday and I wanted to run home and tell her.
My partner has always been very independent and sometime overly sensitive about being 'helped' when she is struggling.
I also worry that she'll feel like she only is being considered because of me.
I just want her to be happy.
She isn't ready to be in a relationship. You deserve someone who is all in. Focus on taking care of yourself.
You don’t necessarily have to leave her behind. She’s 23, it’s up to her. If you give her the option to stay with you she might take it. At the very least it’s her decision as an adult whether to keep you in her life no matter what her dad has to say about it. He can’t do jack.
Lying is lying. Lying is associated with cheating. You knew what her issues were and you went with the worst possible decision to feed into her insecurities. It’s up to her if she wants to stay on. It would probably be best if she were single and work through her past trauma with therapy. You were no help. She is not ready for a relationship, especially with someone that blatantly lies to her.