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Can I tell you a secret? People with BPD know they have these tendencies too. Some are more aware than others, this guy is not aware and is having episodes on you.
As someone who has dated those with BPD and has BPD friends, none of this is your responsibility. Block him, and move on. If you want to give it some padding, send a message explaining why you don’t want to continue this friendship.
Those with BPD have emotional issues but they are more than capable of learning
Married for 8 years actually found out he was on the apps before we got married after we were married and 8 years down the road he still does it, 3 years ago (before streaming) I said fuck it and exchanged contact with someone from a different game. One and only time I've done it yet last week he was still on them, now anytime I play its the equivalent of me being on dating apps, sexting and sending pics?? Like I fucked up back then but it's definitely not anywhere near the same, or am I wrong and should just stop playing
I used to think just like you. Then I met my now ex-bf Jonathan. Who liked to hang out with his ex sexual partner.
A few weeks ago, Jonathan stormed out of my apartment because I told him “if you keep hanging out with your ex gf, then it’s only fair for me to visit Richard (my ex bf).” The guy didn’t even argue with me. He just started yelling that he had a rough week, didn’t want to hear it, grabbed his stuff, ran to his car, texted me that he wasn’t coming back
Right after that happened, I called Richard and told him what happened. He had always been my confidante, though I had put distance between us when I started dating Jonathan. Obviously now that Jonathan was gone, I didnt have to anymore. After hearing a blow by blow account of our break up, Richard said “the fact that he was still talking with his ex should have been a deal breaker. Your relationship was doomed to fail.”
I had put distance between myself and my ex to be monogamous with Jonathan. Jonathan did not do the same for me, but he obviously cared when the shoe was on the other foot.
I don’t think it’s any coincide that of all the men I’ve ever dated, the most immature, selfish, irresponsible one was also the only one who continued to have regular daily contact with his ex gf throughout our relationship.
So no. I used to think that it could be acceptable in some cases, but now not at all.
My brother says the same thing that i deserve much more than this. And slowly i am also coming to this realisation. I didn't had any friend, plus i was not allowed to have guy friends. Thats why i never got to know any other perspective. Thank you so much really for your rply.
1000% in a very similar situation, not quite to the controlling finances BUT I felt so guilty about spending my hot earned money on anything. He was strict, cheated on me emotionally(said gross things to other women), not sure about physically.
I felt trapped. I’m not going to make this about me. I don’t have kids so I imagine it’s even harder.
Best thing I’ve ever done was leave. I’m emotionally damaged and have PTSD, etc. from all his negative behavior and 2 years later I’m still affected.
His behavior triggered anxiety months later after trying to date again, so I really worked naked to heal myself before dating again. I found an amazing man eventually and am so so happy with him
Can I tell you a secret? People with BPD know they have these tendencies too. Some are more aware than others, this guy is not aware and is having episodes on you.
As someone who has dated those with BPD and has BPD friends, none of this is your responsibility. Block him, and move on. If you want to give it some padding, send a message explaining why you don’t want to continue this friendship.
Those with BPD have emotional issues but they are more than capable of learning
Married for 8 years actually found out he was on the apps before we got married after we were married and 8 years down the road he still does it, 3 years ago (before streaming) I said fuck it and exchanged contact with someone from a different game. One and only time I've done it yet last week he was still on them, now anytime I play its the equivalent of me being on dating apps, sexting and sending pics?? Like I fucked up back then but it's definitely not anywhere near the same, or am I wrong and should just stop playing
Are you asking or stating?
I used to think just like you. Then I met my now ex-bf Jonathan. Who liked to hang out with his ex sexual partner.
A few weeks ago, Jonathan stormed out of my apartment because I told him “if you keep hanging out with your ex gf, then it’s only fair for me to visit Richard (my ex bf).” The guy didn’t even argue with me. He just started yelling that he had a rough week, didn’t want to hear it, grabbed his stuff, ran to his car, texted me that he wasn’t coming back
Right after that happened, I called Richard and told him what happened. He had always been my confidante, though I had put distance between us when I started dating Jonathan. Obviously now that Jonathan was gone, I didnt have to anymore. After hearing a blow by blow account of our break up, Richard said “the fact that he was still talking with his ex should have been a deal breaker. Your relationship was doomed to fail.”
I had put distance between myself and my ex to be monogamous with Jonathan. Jonathan did not do the same for me, but he obviously cared when the shoe was on the other foot.
I don’t think it’s any coincide that of all the men I’ve ever dated, the most immature, selfish, irresponsible one was also the only one who continued to have regular daily contact with his ex gf throughout our relationship.
So no. I used to think that it could be acceptable in some cases, but now not at all.
The vagina is te hole thing….not the whole thing. Vulva….
My brother says the same thing that i deserve much more than this. And slowly i am also coming to this realisation. I didn't had any friend, plus i was not allowed to have guy friends. Thats why i never got to know any other perspective. Thank you so much really for your rply.
the point is, there aren't any articles or studies proving anything. veverything just says “may cause”… which isn't proving anything
1000% in a very similar situation, not quite to the controlling finances BUT I felt so guilty about spending my hot earned money on anything. He was strict, cheated on me emotionally(said gross things to other women), not sure about physically.
I felt trapped. I’m not going to make this about me. I don’t have kids so I imagine it’s even harder.
Best thing I’ve ever done was leave. I’m emotionally damaged and have PTSD, etc. from all his negative behavior and 2 years later I’m still affected.
His behavior triggered anxiety months later after trying to date again, so I really worked naked to heal myself before dating again. I found an amazing man eventually and am so so happy with him
Please go get a job. She is using you as free labor and berating you constantly, she can hire someone to make her life better.
Get your own job and a new place to on-line, please stop being used and abused!