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My girlfriend & I have been dating for the past 3 years. We are deeply in love and our relationship has been great thus far. I get along very well with her teenage kids as she had them very young. Today, she admitted to me that she no longer has the desire of having more kids. We’ve had this conversation multiple times before and she accepted of having another one and has been brought up quite often. She knows how important it is to me of having my own however, she’s had a change of heart these past few weeks. I have been wanting a child of my own for quite some time and would love to have one at this stage of life. My heart is crushed as we have a beautiful life together. Advice?
Oh honey, oh sweetie, please don't throw your life away please realize you deserve better than this, you are worth so much more and I can GUARANTEE there are women out there who would love you just the way you are and wouldn't feel like they “settled” with you- they'd be stoked to have you and feel like they won the main prize You deserve better!!!
Well, I don't know this guy, but I wager the real core of all of these “judging” activities is him trying to control how you go out and who you go out with. Not in an explicit “I WON'T ALLOW THIS” way but it's probably still an attempt to exert some control.
You can’t tell from his SM if he was in a relationship then, but you know everything about him now?? Come on.
He was cheating, but regardless you definitely need to tell him. Today.
I would get tested if you still can if something was slipped in your drink just to rule that option out.
Maybe she realised that all the work with the child would be hers
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My girlfriend & I have been dating for the past 3 years. We are deeply in love and our relationship has been great thus far. I get along very well with her teenage kids as she had them very young. Today, she admitted to me that she no longer has the desire of having more kids. We’ve had this conversation multiple times before and she accepted of having another one and has been brought up quite often. She knows how important it is to me of having my own however, she’s had a change of heart these past few weeks. I have been wanting a child of my own for quite some time and would love to have one at this stage of life. My heart is crushed as we have a beautiful life together. Advice?
Oh honey, oh sweetie, please don't throw your life away please realize you deserve better than this, you are worth so much more and I can GUARANTEE there are women out there who would love you just the way you are and wouldn't feel like they “settled” with you- they'd be stoked to have you and feel like they won the main prize You deserve better!!!
Well, I don't know this guy, but I wager the real core of all of these “judging” activities is him trying to control how you go out and who you go out with. Not in an explicit “I WON'T ALLOW THIS” way but it's probably still an attempt to exert some control.