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Date: October 17, 2022
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It's not the same situation.
Women who are aggressive in DMs are pretty unlikely to find every way under the sun to harass you getting progressively more full of vitriol.
Her offering to let you see messages and you accepting can be a one off. It doesn't mean changing your relationship dynamics.
But this is clearly still bothering you. Go to her. Tell her this is still kinda bothering you. That you wish she'd told you about this guy messaging her just so you felt in the loop about it. It's still her decision how she feels comfortable handling him. If she is still ok with it, you'd like to see the messages just to quiet that anxiety.
Yes this man is abusing the hel out of you.
Just face it. You’re being replaced. Best to just cut ties and move on.
Its just so hot, she told me she still really wants to be with me, but we don’t see eye to eye. Everything was perfect until we were seperated for winter break. I know she’s the one for me, but I guess you’re right. I need to respect her wishes and hope she doesn’t just go hook up with some random at a bar.
I hope you can find some happiness once she’s not your problem any more. You sound like you could use some. Honestly, what are you losing?
really makes me wonder how they made it all the way to marriage and baby
Huge life changes like having a new baby, a loss or gain of a job, a big move, an accident or illness, etc tend to bring out sides of people you've never seen before. It's really easy to online in that honeymoon phase for a while until you have to adult up and wake up to reality of the day to day work of being an adult. Especially with the added responsibility of a child on top. Some people don't adjust well at all.
Where your dad is coming from is he fucked around and now he’s finding out. He has not expressed any reasoning as to why he wants to repair the relationship with your sister apart from the selfish motive of thinking he deserves to see a grandchild before he dies. He doesn’t want to make real amends for his behaviour, he just doesn’t like that the people he’s pushed away aren’t running back to him now that he’s decided he’s done being mad and wants his family to do the dirty work to pressure your sister to let him have his way.
How about he pressures himself to reflect sincerely on his behaviour and do some unselfish and unobtrusive work to make up for it in whatever time he has left? Maybe he could write some heartfelt letters to your sister and his grandchild expressing his love and his regrets and apologies and those could be given to them after he dies so your sister can decide if she wants her kid to have that.
I was on and off of both zoloft (setraline) and wellbutrin for the past 3 years. I started stimulants (adderall and then vyvanse + an adderall booster) a little over a year ago (on top of both setraline and wellbutrin). I also started working 3xs a week for a year and a half and seeing a nutritionist, and I couldn't lose a single pound despite consistently being in a calorie deficit. I finally weaned off of the setraline and lost 8lbs in one week. I know that's not even a healthy about of weight to lose, but I was so shocked at how quickly I shed weight just by stopping one of my medications (some might be muscle loss because I stopped working out once I got so frustrated at doing everything “right” and not losing weight). Since then, my weight loss has been a lot lower on a weekly basis, but I'm happy with the healthy rate at which I'm finally losing weight. I finally feel motivated to work out again too, which is great.
Because it’s a sex act. Sex is not tit for tat.
A person doesn’t owe another person a particular sex act merely because their partner likes to do it to them. Mutual pleasure comes in all forms.
Yeah that’s a good possibility. I don’t think there was that much intent but who knows
I've even suggested this. Just to compromise, but still she feels negative about the whole thing.
Exactly. The 9 year old should be smarter than the dogs. He needs to learn to put his things up.
Yeah, I got that about the sub stuff immediately when he said that. Verbally, I don’t like to be talk to you like that because I I don’t think we could all. I think that you love him and adore him and he can’t separate that so the issues with him. However, I wouldn’t take it for a second I would say fine by.
I couldn’t even make it 1/3 of the way through this post. I’m exhausted and bored just reading about this relationship. I can’t imagine being with either of these people. Geez, just separate.
You're not wrong to be upset, he sounds incredibly immature. I've had UTIs and kidney infections since I was a kid, it's just something that happens when you're afab bc our urethras are way shorter and close to the vagina. Honestly our anatomy is bullshit, putting the waste pipes so close to the playground. Anyway you deserve better than this.