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Birth Date: 2003-01-18
Body Type: bodyTypeCurvy
Ethnicity: ethnicityLatino
Hair color: hairColorBlonde
Eyes color: eyeColorBrown
Subculture: subcultureGlamour
Date: December 10, 2022
Seems like your relationship back then was super confusing and messy. I’m hoping that your relationship isn’t like that now. It’s been a long time and you have both grown and changed since then. You even admitted that you weren’t the nicest back then. You are evaluating what she did back then as if it happened now… which makes sense because you just found out, but it happened 6 years ago when you both were a mess. Time will help you come to terms with what happened, now you know everything before marriage or kids and you can decide what is right for you. Sounds like she had a lot of forgiveness for you so hopefully you can have forgiveness for her too if you both want to be together.
As well from the fact that you should have kicked her to the curb as soon as you found out because cheaters never change. You now know that she values a toy over you.
So do what you should have done in the first place and kick her out. Tell her to take her toys and go live with her affair partner
Girl go and enjoy your evening. Don’t let him ruin your time with friends. Never let a man control you or guilt you. Say he is being controlling and ridiculous and you’re going. And if he has an issue with you having a social life he can go find another gf. Period. Stand up for yourself.
Sister-in-law used to go to Haiti to “volunteer”.
This girl is the most useless human, no domestic skills, no medical training, can’t hold a hammer, nothing.
She was so used to being praised for her “selflessness,” but she stopped bragging about it to me because I was horrified. “What do you do that’s actually helpful?? ‘Holding babies’ or ‘playing with kids’ doesn’t count. Wouldn’t the several thousand dollars you dropped on the trip have done a lot more good to hire local, knowledgeable staff? Or towards sending people who can actually help, like doctors or dentists?”
Mate your wife is a piece of shit
yes it is! IF you dont think its a big deal for guys liking your pic, then you have to see it as no big deal he likes other girls pics. ITs a double standard.
Her insecurity is causing her to want to hurt you instead of face the truth about herself. She can't emotionally deal with the truth about her weight, so her reaction is to project you as the fat one so she can remain in denial. Obesity is a tough thing to face. She doesn't have to lose weight, make sure she knows that. You still love her. You've always loved her.
My relationship has almost the same numbers as yours lol. My wife will casually drop little comments that I need to gain a little weight so we can be overweight together. I try to just end the conversation without indulging her fantasy. Over covid I gained 40 lbs. Then, over this last winter, I lost it all with portion control. I was excited but she couldn't be happy for me. I think because she struggles with weight loss and feels a lot of pressure from my family (mostly have good bmi) to lose weight. Her family is all in the high range of 40s. I don't pressure her into weight loss at all. I just want her to be happy with herself, whatever path that takes. She likes to use her height (shorter than your girl) as an excuse for the bmi ratings to be skewed and inaccurate. Whatever, I don't push anything related to bmi and try to keep the focus on her body and what she wants to do with it for herself.
Imagine that the bmi ratings are junk (what our girls want to believe), then the only thing left is their past selves and the people around them. Focus on that. Do they feel restricted by their weight? Do they acknowledge that it comes with health risks? Do they want to lose weight based on the bodies of their close friends/relatives? Do they miss their thinner bodies from when they were younger? They get these bmi ratings from strangers at a hospital and want to just say “fyck them, they don't know what they're talking about, they don't know my body” but it still plants the seed in their mind that everybody might disrespect them. Your girl thought she was “curvy” (sexy, feminine, mature) but now feels reduced down to “obese” (unattractive, needs improvement, not worth respect). Help her see that she is still attractive, and that your body weight isn't going to help her feel differently about hers. Help her see weight in terms of her former self vs her future self, instead of an arbitrary weight goal based on bmi.
Just last night we watched the latest episode of Star Wars and it had Jack Black and Lizzo as married royalty. Was so awesome. My wife then talked about Lizzo having such a strong fashion presence (despite being obese). Obesity doesn't mean a person is broken or unattractive. Lizzo and Jack have such high confidence in themselves, which is better than being the clinical 'ideal' weight. It's a tough thing to bring up weight. You'd rather not talk about it, but now you have to since she is adopting some bad habits of shaming you for having a healthy weight.
Spend some solid quality time together leading up to July. During these ~2 months, really use the time to see how emotionally invested the both of you are.
You can’t control anything with this impeding situation, you can help how you feel about it though. It’s going to hurt and will feel like hell for the first couple of weeks but be kind to yourself and listen to your needs. It’ll become easier.
Also maybe do a cute idea like both of you keep a pen pal journal. Write in it everyday or every few days and then exchange it when you guys reunite.