LMFAO WHY TF ARE U PAYING FOR WEED OR VAPES? those are NOT necessities.
stop everything. he needs to go home. and stop doing all that. if he's broke and homeless WEED SHOULD BE THE LAST THING ON HIS MIND.
tell him u are not doing it again. literally just stop doing it. he needs a job like tomorrow. he needs to get his own shit together. only he can do that
Making smart choices about the people you allow into your life is not punishing them. The world doesn't owe this man company.
It is fascinating to me that you want to pretend that this guy's father is not bad. Do you think he went to prison for eleven years because he tricked a friend into paying for his vacation?
The reality is you have to step up. So at least that's understandable. I wouldn't blame your wife for leaving you though, also… Did you have an affair? And if you did, why didn't you wear protection. You've been extremely irresponsible, I'd leave you for sure. You have to step up but you get no Kudos. It's the bare minimum.
Keep in mind (and this is just my opinion, do you) when you go into a conversation with boundaries, your sense of confidence really only can come from a willingness to lay the relationship down if they refuse to accept them. best of luck
This is not the way. You have to communicate with her. The most important thing to communicate is how you feel- not point out the things she does that make you feel the way you do.
The first step is starting a dialogue without leaving room for her to view it as an attack. You feel overwhelmed, you want to do better- not she makes you feel that way, you simply do. How things are going is difficult for you, and you want to find an approach to meeting everyone's needs without feeling like you're not good enough.
She's been your partner for 18 years, surly she must care how you feel. And you owe it to yourself to try to show her where you're at on your side of the relationship.
I feel trapped too because he's got tons of connections. And also, I speak mostly french so I have the language barrier and can't really make friends easily here… our friends are nice… but who would you want to be friends with… some rich guy who has tons of fun or some random french girl who can speak proper english?
I hope that you left a big, nicely visible sign on his forehead with his phone…!
Who are you trying to fool with this shit story.
Advice, you are trying too hard. So it sounds like a porno written by a 15 year old who hasn’t been around humans in 20 years.
“pornography” ?
It's not a photo of her husband penetrating her, it's a hard female body.
You said it yourself, it's an art piece. Nudity does not always equal pornography.
OP, let it lie. I'm sure you have some weird feelings about it, but at the end of the day, I believe it's quite the compliment. Take the secret win.
LMFAO WHY TF ARE U PAYING FOR WEED OR VAPES? those are NOT necessities.
stop everything. he needs to go home. and stop doing all that. if he's broke and homeless WEED SHOULD BE THE LAST THING ON HIS MIND.
tell him u are not doing it again. literally just stop doing it. he needs a job like tomorrow. he needs to get his own shit together. only he can do that
Making smart choices about the people you allow into your life is not punishing them. The world doesn't owe this man company.
It is fascinating to me that you want to pretend that this guy's father is not bad. Do you think he went to prison for eleven years because he tricked a friend into paying for his vacation?
The naivete here is incredible!
Have you talked to your husband about feeling lonely? He probably can't read your mind
The reality is you have to step up. So at least that's understandable. I wouldn't blame your wife for leaving you though, also… Did you have an affair? And if you did, why didn't you wear protection. You've been extremely irresponsible, I'd leave you for sure. You have to step up but you get no Kudos. It's the bare minimum.
Keep in mind (and this is just my opinion, do you) when you go into a conversation with boundaries, your sense of confidence really only can come from a willingness to lay the relationship down if they refuse to accept them. best of luck
Fucking seriously!!! Bob hosted the after party and told OP his fiancé is not welcome. How is this fact going right over OP’s head?
This is not the way. You have to communicate with her. The most important thing to communicate is how you feel- not point out the things she does that make you feel the way you do.
The first step is starting a dialogue without leaving room for her to view it as an attack. You feel overwhelmed, you want to do better- not she makes you feel that way, you simply do. How things are going is difficult for you, and you want to find an approach to meeting everyone's needs without feeling like you're not good enough.
She's been your partner for 18 years, surly she must care how you feel. And you owe it to yourself to try to show her where you're at on your side of the relationship.
It is, it’s a fairly common practice in several countries though.
It affects both man and women. Nowadays more than ever where OnlyFans is a thing and girls are ruining their romantic lifes by becoming prostitutes
I feel trapped too because he's got tons of connections. And also, I speak mostly french so I have the language barrier and can't really make friends easily here… our friends are nice… but who would you want to be friends with… some rich guy who has tons of fun or some random french girl who can speak proper english?