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You need to break up with her for your own well being.
Idk my peace of mind I guess
There is a lot of good advice here. Try all the options BUT understand that you do not have to date someone who is unhealthy.
If she chooses to address and look into her sudden weight gain, then you can be supportive and assist in food and lifestyle changes.
If she chooses to stick her head in the sand then you should step back. You could be honest and say that
“I have watched you make a lot of unhealthy life choices in the last 6 months. You don't eat well or exercise. You have gained a lot of weight and although it might be warning you that you need to see a doctor, you have refused to investigate.
I love you but I have no intention if sitting around and watching you destroy your health in slow motion.
For niw, I am stepping back from being your bf. I care about you and still want to be your friend. But I need space for my own mental health.”
And step away for a week.
You might find after a week away you actually feel RELIEF.
I think it's important here for you to help us understand the full context of the situation if we're going to be able to give you the most beneficial advice if it exists.
To start, I agree with you; it's absolutely an inherent problem that she went through your phone and violated your privacy. Regardless of what was found, it's an indication that she already didn't trust you, and that's problematic. Is this a theme in your relationship where she does this? Separately, have you given her reason not to trust you?
Next, what exactly was the nature of the text that she found? Was it inappropriate? Even if she's wrong to have snooped, that wouldn't change reality if you'd done something wrong.
Then you went ballistic. Given my stance on snooping, I might not say it's inherently unreasonable to be upset about it, but like anything else, your actions while being upset can't just be excused even if you're right to be upset (and I'm not saying you're excusing them – you're clearly not). When those actions become “aggressive” for lack of a better term, the focus almost always shifts to those actions entirely and we lose sight of the initial issue. The problem there is that the two are unrelated; the initial issue still exists and needs to be addressed. But now, the behavior as a result of anger over that issue needs to be addressed. What did you do and/or say? That's also important here to help us assess the situation properly.
He is escalating. If you don’t leave he will have you in a hospital fighting for your life one day.
Does your bf know about the SA that happened before? Whether he does or not, I feel like you should let him know. His brother is a douche for inappropriately touching you let alone, plus on top of being his own brother’s girlfriend… Then, he’s the type of douche who would try to lie and say you seduced him. Or, if you don’t think your boyfriend will believe you… Do what you feel best. Just don’t ever be alone with that predator again.
If you feel so bad work on a repayment plan. Otherwise just focus on that degree. That is the true safety and freedom to have.
Further, you should probably set expectations on the agreement in case it gets out of hand.
Right? If anything it sounds like drunken silliness to me. If he cut his friend out for some stupid shit like this that’s on him not you. I could understand maybe it made him uncomfortable but ffs saying that you cheated!?!? No ma’am that’s what cheating is.
Because she's 24 and he's in his 30s
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