It's only been 6 months and she is your whole world?? You are in your twenties and she is 42?? She is tracking your location and making accusations? Seriously, how much more toxicity do you need before you figure it's not worth it??
After he cheated he said he realized that I was serious and claims to trust me. I trusted him even that night when he texted me the girl was there. I just didn’t want them around each-other because they did have a lowkey thing right before we got together. Little flirting and what not
I'm the same age as the guy you're interested in and if I had a friend or knew someone my age who actively wanted to date a 20 year old, especially thru a dating app where there are setting and stuff for age, I would be giving them a nude look and judge the shit out of them.
I'd either assume they were just flat out immature and odds are they won't mature much ever, or they have some weird ideas about what women should look like and will dump a younger person once that young person grows up.
If it happened randomly and organically, like meeting thru a shared hobby it would be one thing but you two generally should be at different life stages so those incompatibilities will only show up more and more.
Yeah, we don't work together anymore. But surprisingly, we got along really well. She spoke of future plans a lot and spoke as if she wanted to be more serious (tho 19 yo usuay aren't so I did have doubt.)
I feel like this is missing some important context.
It's only been 6 months and she is your whole world?? You are in your twenties and she is 42?? She is tracking your location and making accusations? Seriously, how much more toxicity do you need before you figure it's not worth it??
After he cheated he said he realized that I was serious and claims to trust me. I trusted him even that night when he texted me the girl was there. I just didn’t want them around each-other because they did have a lowkey thing right before we got together. Little flirting and what not
I'm the same age as the guy you're interested in and if I had a friend or knew someone my age who actively wanted to date a 20 year old, especially thru a dating app where there are setting and stuff for age, I would be giving them a nude look and judge the shit out of them.
I'd either assume they were just flat out immature and odds are they won't mature much ever, or they have some weird ideas about what women should look like and will dump a younger person once that young person grows up.
If it happened randomly and organically, like meeting thru a shared hobby it would be one thing but you two generally should be at different life stages so those incompatibilities will only show up more and more.
Yeah, we don't work together anymore. But surprisingly, we got along really well. She spoke of future plans a lot and spoke as if she wanted to be more serious (tho 19 yo usuay aren't so I did have doubt.)
If after 3 months you are still not over this, it is time to break up. Holding on to something for this long is not fruitful.
I only see her on the weekends and we usually mess around when we get back home and shower.