When I initially told him about my trauma, he said that was a me problem and I needed to deal with it. 2 years later, it's still happening so I address it again last night. I mention his prior response, which he denied saying and this time he told me, “he's my husband and I need to get over it'. Both responses translates the same to me, he's not the problem I am.
Jesus Christ, being single isnt as bad as this.
I fully accept this is my trauma, hoping to get some advice how to address this ongoing issue.
Yeah if he isn’t there for her during this time in her life, this says a ton about him as a partner in general. As in, he is a mega shitty one.
Yeah. We have a very open relationship and communicate through everything, and I know that is the right thing to do. Thank you for responding.
I know he genuinely believes this and it seems like the hardest thing to approach for some reason.
He’s definitely very kind and sensitive and empathetic but didn’t think about it because I’m sure he didn’t think he had to.
I really appreciate your words and I hope I can find a way to bring it up.
When I initially told him about my trauma, he said that was a me problem and I needed to deal with it. 2 years later, it's still happening so I address it again last night. I mention his prior response, which he denied saying and this time he told me, “he's my husband and I need to get over it'. Both responses translates the same to me, he's not the problem I am.
Jesus Christ, being single isnt as bad as this.
I fully accept this is my trauma, hoping to get some advice how to address this ongoing issue.
Your husband doesn't care about you. Leave him.
Did u ask why?