While I agree, she has done this multiple times before and if I had left her alone, she would then say I had “given up on her” or that I “didn't try nude enough”. Hence I keep trying to communicate even though she may seem like she does not want to communicate.
I think your bf isn't wrong for getting insecure since you attempted to leave him. He probably was really worried why you would, and wanted some answers. It's a violation of privacy and shows he doesn't trust you, and I'm not okay with that aspect of looking through phones. But he did find proof that you were emotionally cheating on him.
I think you should break up with him properly this time, and not date this new/old guy. Switching relationships like that is really unhealthy. You need time after a relationship. You need to breath and reflect. Don't just jump right back into one. It doesn't matter which side you were on. You need that time to look back.
The only trick that I can suggest if u feel that mindset happening is to either talk to someone who has been through the same thing that can help ease ur thoughts or u can try a hobby. When I was ur age I use to do a lot of drawings, they weren't healthy drawings but it helped a lil for the time being and was used as a great example of how I was feeling when I started going to my therapy sessions so the therapist knew where my mindset was at the time. Besides that I'm not sure my other coping mechanisms would help u, when I feel really overwhelmed I will take a tissue and just breath into it with deep steady breaths for about 15 seconds and clear my mind and replace it with just the scent that I'm smelling from the tissue. If I'm really down in the dumps then I will take a long nature walk on a path that people don't usually use much of so I can have isolation with some music playing and contemplate nature's purpose n when I get close to the end of my walk I'll check back in to reality and see where my mind is at, if it's still black then I'll do another round. In other words im not sure if any of those will work for u but they could, u could give it a try cuz it wouldn't hurt just to try.
While I agree, she has done this multiple times before and if I had left her alone, she would then say I had “given up on her” or that I “didn't try nude enough”. Hence I keep trying to communicate even though she may seem like she does not want to communicate.
I think your bf isn't wrong for getting insecure since you attempted to leave him. He probably was really worried why you would, and wanted some answers. It's a violation of privacy and shows he doesn't trust you, and I'm not okay with that aspect of looking through phones. But he did find proof that you were emotionally cheating on him.
I think you should break up with him properly this time, and not date this new/old guy. Switching relationships like that is really unhealthy. You need time after a relationship. You need to breath and reflect. Don't just jump right back into one. It doesn't matter which side you were on. You need that time to look back.
The only trick that I can suggest if u feel that mindset happening is to either talk to someone who has been through the same thing that can help ease ur thoughts or u can try a hobby. When I was ur age I use to do a lot of drawings, they weren't healthy drawings but it helped a lil for the time being and was used as a great example of how I was feeling when I started going to my therapy sessions so the therapist knew where my mindset was at the time. Besides that I'm not sure my other coping mechanisms would help u, when I feel really overwhelmed I will take a tissue and just breath into it with deep steady breaths for about 15 seconds and clear my mind and replace it with just the scent that I'm smelling from the tissue. If I'm really down in the dumps then I will take a long nature walk on a path that people don't usually use much of so I can have isolation with some music playing and contemplate nature's purpose n when I get close to the end of my walk I'll check back in to reality and see where my mind is at, if it's still black then I'll do another round. In other words im not sure if any of those will work for u but they could, u could give it a try cuz it wouldn't hurt just to try.
Break ups are never easy. Regardless of the reasoning
Her sister will tell her. Either 1) when the guilt gets too much or 2) when she’s angry enough or it’ll do enough damage.
Girl, he sounds super cringy ?
I’d consider her crying a form of gaslighting. Make sure she knows what she did was wrong.
I hate when comments get auto mod deleted smh
Is that an excuse for behavior?