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It sounds like your wife is exhausted & overwhelmed. It also sounds like your son & daughter have different temperaments. Its common for one child to be “easier” – an easier sleeper, more agreeable, etc. while another child is more difficult. If you had your easy child first, your wife may be feeling like a bad mother. She might be wondering what she is doing wrong w/”this one”. And its not that she is doing anything wrong, its that your kids are different & need different approaches. What worked for your son may not work for your daughter.
I love my kids but oh wow, I got my “difficult” one first. haha. (I put that in quotes because I truly do love my kids.) but my oldest, starting at about 18 mths, threw the worst tantrums for about 3 years. I thought I was the worst mother in the world until I had baby #2 & he was a pretty mellow, easy going little guy! Then I clued in – its not me. These kids have their own personalities & needs & strengths, etc. So for my oldest, ages 2 to 5 were challenging. And then he started to grow out of it. We had to be very patient to not lose our cool over the tantrums & be consistent & still loving. My oldest is an adult now & is awesome.
My recommendation: instead of bringing up what she said directly, tell your wife that you are concerned about her. Ask her how she is feeling. Is she tired? Does she need a break? More support? Brainstorm together ways to make bedtime easier. Or discuss other ways that your daughter may be pushing your wife's buttons & how you should approach it. IE – why is it taking 2 hours to put her to bed? Is bedtime too early? Is she growing out of naps? Should her nap be shorter? Is she getting up to play? Are there ways to not make it a battle of wills? ie – you need to go to bed & you can't play with your toys but as long as you stay in bed, you can look at your books until you are sleepy. My husband is similar in temperament to my oldest & they have butted heads often because neither will back down. A battle of wills is not productive with a 3 year old! Yeah, you need to be consistent & not give in, but getting upset because they are being a normal 3 yr old doesn't help anything. (easier said that done, I know)
I think you are right to be concerned about what your wife said but it might be better to come at it indirectly – by offering support, a shoulder to cry / vent on, and constructive ways to help with both your kids & your wife's burden. Hopefully, this was just exhaustion talking and you will get thru this with your wife. But watch & if she says something like this again, then approach it head on.
Anecdotal story. My husband and son (adult/living in another state) are both allergic to cats. My son even more so than my husband.
Our daughter unexpectedly passed away in 2019 and 1 year later I was dealing with the unexpected health decline (and eventual death) of my father. When I was told about a stray cat’s litter, I went to see them. I told myself I would ONLY get a cat if I bonded with it. Well, I bonded with two and my mom bonded with the other two in the litter.
When I took the kittens home, I kept them in one room that had an air purifier by the door. Vacuumed daily. Used Allerpet. Slowly, but surely, my husband adapted to them. (He would sometimes come into ‘their’ room). Fast forward to this day 2 1/2 years later, no issues. If he pets other cats, he has a reaction (sneezes/stopped up nose).
My son….my dear, dear son. He had TERRIBLE reactions to the kittens when he visited. Sneeze. Sneeze. Sneeze. Sneeze. Sneeze. Stopped up nose. Couldn’t breathe really. Not. Good.
This past year we learned about the Purina Pro Plan dry food that helps with allergies. When my son visited this last time…………no excessive sneezing. No stopped up nose. No issues breathing.
It was incredible.
Hopefully, the purifier, vacuuming, and using the Pro Plan food will all help you.
Also, I never bathe my cats. If they get something on them that needs to be washed off only that area is cleaned.
Absolutely no question go to the graduation!!!! Holy fuck you're a doctor! Celebrate that! I'm sorry your relationship with your family might suffer but you have to choose yourself here 100%. You have to show them you're not abiding by their rules forever. You cant just ditch everything important to you for your brother.
I mean, it Wouldnt be a dealbreaker. But clearly a redflag.
The problem i have is the simulation of another human being. I'd associate it more to camgirls for instance. The simulation of a explicit dialogue with someone else(even tho a simulated person) rubs me the wrong way.
Even if its not exactly cheating, in my eyes, it makes a person more enclined to text other Real people more easily. As ” they're already doing it with an AI and its okay, so what could go wrong”, you know.
And you said it to him in front of his friend, that’s ultimate shade throwing right there and the double down. He is probably doubting if your relationship is even real.
hahah came here to say the same thing. I've had my wisdom teeth out and no one gave me 24/7 undivided attention, I still had to work, take care of the house and two small children! just……wow
It sounds like your wife is exhausted & overwhelmed. It also sounds like your son & daughter have different temperaments. Its common for one child to be “easier” – an easier sleeper, more agreeable, etc. while another child is more difficult. If you had your easy child first, your wife may be feeling like a bad mother. She might be wondering what she is doing wrong w/”this one”. And its not that she is doing anything wrong, its that your kids are different & need different approaches. What worked for your son may not work for your daughter.
I love my kids but oh wow, I got my “difficult” one first. haha. (I put that in quotes because I truly do love my kids.) but my oldest, starting at about 18 mths, threw the worst tantrums for about 3 years. I thought I was the worst mother in the world until I had baby #2 & he was a pretty mellow, easy going little guy! Then I clued in – its not me. These kids have their own personalities & needs & strengths, etc. So for my oldest, ages 2 to 5 were challenging. And then he started to grow out of it. We had to be very patient to not lose our cool over the tantrums & be consistent & still loving. My oldest is an adult now & is awesome.
My recommendation: instead of bringing up what she said directly, tell your wife that you are concerned about her. Ask her how she is feeling. Is she tired? Does she need a break? More support? Brainstorm together ways to make bedtime easier. Or discuss other ways that your daughter may be pushing your wife's buttons & how you should approach it. IE – why is it taking 2 hours to put her to bed? Is bedtime too early? Is she growing out of naps? Should her nap be shorter? Is she getting up to play? Are there ways to not make it a battle of wills? ie – you need to go to bed & you can't play with your toys but as long as you stay in bed, you can look at your books until you are sleepy. My husband is similar in temperament to my oldest & they have butted heads often because neither will back down. A battle of wills is not productive with a 3 year old! Yeah, you need to be consistent & not give in, but getting upset because they are being a normal 3 yr old doesn't help anything. (easier said that done, I know)
I think you are right to be concerned about what your wife said but it might be better to come at it indirectly – by offering support, a shoulder to cry / vent on, and constructive ways to help with both your kids & your wife's burden. Hopefully, this was just exhaustion talking and you will get thru this with your wife. But watch & if she says something like this again, then approach it head on.
Anecdotal story. My husband and son (adult/living in another state) are both allergic to cats. My son even more so than my husband.
Our daughter unexpectedly passed away in 2019 and 1 year later I was dealing with the unexpected health decline (and eventual death) of my father. When I was told about a stray cat’s litter, I went to see them. I told myself I would ONLY get a cat if I bonded with it. Well, I bonded with two and my mom bonded with the other two in the litter.
When I took the kittens home, I kept them in one room that had an air purifier by the door. Vacuumed daily. Used Allerpet. Slowly, but surely, my husband adapted to them. (He would sometimes come into ‘their’ room). Fast forward to this day 2 1/2 years later, no issues. If he pets other cats, he has a reaction (sneezes/stopped up nose).
My son….my dear, dear son. He had TERRIBLE reactions to the kittens when he visited. Sneeze. Sneeze. Sneeze. Sneeze. Sneeze. Stopped up nose. Couldn’t breathe really. Not. Good.
This past year we learned about the Purina Pro Plan dry food that helps with allergies. When my son visited this last time…………no excessive sneezing. No stopped up nose. No issues breathing.
It was incredible.
Hopefully, the purifier, vacuuming, and using the Pro Plan food will all help you.
Also, I never bathe my cats. If they get something on them that needs to be washed off only that area is cleaned.
Definitely not thinking with my dick at all in this situation
Absolutely no question go to the graduation!!!! Holy fuck you're a doctor! Celebrate that! I'm sorry your relationship with your family might suffer but you have to choose yourself here 100%. You have to show them you're not abiding by their rules forever. You cant just ditch everything important to you for your brother.
I mean, it Wouldnt be a dealbreaker. But clearly a redflag.
The problem i have is the simulation of another human being. I'd associate it more to camgirls for instance. The simulation of a explicit dialogue with someone else(even tho a simulated person) rubs me the wrong way.
Even if its not exactly cheating, in my eyes, it makes a person more enclined to text other Real people more easily. As ” they're already doing it with an AI and its okay, so what could go wrong”, you know.
And you said it to him in front of his friend, that’s ultimate shade throwing right there and the double down. He is probably doubting if your relationship is even real.
hahah came here to say the same thing. I've had my wisdom teeth out and no one gave me 24/7 undivided attention, I still had to work, take care of the house and two small children! just……wow