Have her call CPS and tell them an ex is threatening to call them on her. She can ask them to make a visit to prove things are OK and if they can make a note on her file that someone is trying to weaponize CPS on her
When I first started dating my boyfriend, I found him attractive but I wasn't obsessed with him because of his looks- he felt like home. Now, I think he's seriously the sexiest man I could ever ask for, AND he feels like home, 4 years later. Looks fade. Character remains.
But like I mentioned be4: she knew from before we got together. It's pretty common here to be intimate with some friends without it being weird. And it doesn't mean anything to me, we're just hanging out together and it happens like once every month only. It's mostly a joke that's been going on for over a year
It sounds like you are feeling very confused and hurt by your boyfriend's recent request for absolute control over your future child's academics. While it is understandable that he may have strong opinions about education, it is important for both parents to be involved in their child's life and decisions.
It's also concerning that he has been avoiding you and not responding to your attempts to communicate. It may be helpful to give him some space for a little while, but it's important to eventually have a conversation about what is going on and why he made this request.
It's possible that something else is going on in his life that is causing him to feel this way, and it may not be related to your relationship at all. It could be helpful to approach the conversation from a place of concern and curiosity, rather than anger or defensiveness.
It may also be helpful to seek the assistance of a couples therapist or counselor to help navigate this situation and improve communication and understanding between the two of you. Remember that open and honest communication is key in any relationship, and it's important to work through any issues together as a team.
He isn't worth any more of the energy you have, he can't accept he isn't your priority but instead of being a grown up and finishing things he is choosing to act like a spoilt brat. He needs to find someone who can give him what he needs, and you need to find someone who isn't so dependant on others. Sometimes walking away and going down separate paths is the only way. I'm sorry you had such an awful day yesterday
Exactly why I'm ranting at reddit and not talking to my husband. He's nothing but perfect to me. But after all the Hell my ex and I went through it feels like being punched in the stomach.
What is your problem is going on dates with guys you know you don’t like lol
Am I supposed to interpret this into something more coherent?
A special. Just for you. Once again.
Why did you break up with your fling? How exactly did you break up?
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It's not appropriate to bring it up if the pictures are from the past.
But also if you were a little older, you might know this, and that's why people are going to comment on the age gap. It's too much.
Have her call CPS and tell them an ex is threatening to call them on her. She can ask them to make a visit to prove things are OK and if they can make a note on her file that someone is trying to weaponize CPS on her
When I first started dating my boyfriend, I found him attractive but I wasn't obsessed with him because of his looks- he felt like home. Now, I think he's seriously the sexiest man I could ever ask for, AND he feels like home, 4 years later. Looks fade. Character remains.
But like I mentioned be4: she knew from before we got together. It's pretty common here to be intimate with some friends without it being weird. And it doesn't mean anything to me, we're just hanging out together and it happens like once every month only. It's mostly a joke that's been going on for over a year
ChatGPT4 Therapist says:
It sounds like you are feeling very confused and hurt by your boyfriend's recent request for absolute control over your future child's academics. While it is understandable that he may have strong opinions about education, it is important for both parents to be involved in their child's life and decisions.
It's also concerning that he has been avoiding you and not responding to your attempts to communicate. It may be helpful to give him some space for a little while, but it's important to eventually have a conversation about what is going on and why he made this request.
It's possible that something else is going on in his life that is causing him to feel this way, and it may not be related to your relationship at all. It could be helpful to approach the conversation from a place of concern and curiosity, rather than anger or defensiveness.
It may also be helpful to seek the assistance of a couples therapist or counselor to help navigate this situation and improve communication and understanding between the two of you. Remember that open and honest communication is key in any relationship, and it's important to work through any issues together as a team.
Yes
I mean, the post itself shows that it’s a “her” thing, not just some shallow, woe-is-me soap opera about her looks, but…
Holy shit thats a lot. Good sir for going through and tracking that mess
He isn't worth any more of the energy you have, he can't accept he isn't your priority but instead of being a grown up and finishing things he is choosing to act like a spoilt brat. He needs to find someone who can give him what he needs, and you need to find someone who isn't so dependant on others. Sometimes walking away and going down separate paths is the only way. I'm sorry you had such an awful day yesterday
Exactly why I'm ranting at reddit and not talking to my husband. He's nothing but perfect to me. But after all the Hell my ex and I went through it feels like being punched in the stomach.