Opening relationships for the sake of fixing something, seldom work out. Let alone open relationship due to exploration.
What makes this even more challenging, it's an LDR, which also have a high fail rate.
LDRs are a massive complication and hurdle to deal with. Not saying they're busted, but they need rapid progression for success. Like you two need to get to each-other asap to eliminate the distance.. people need their partner accessible. And the lack of access here, is pushing you towards an open relationship.
This sounds like a lost cause tbh. You two are a fantasy for each-other.
I'd say take it on the chin and break it off. You both would be much happier having a partner closer to home.
Lol that doesn’t change anything it’s literally another dude at his house while he is in another country lol no guy would feel 100% comfortable with that
I guess for me I’d gain some weird sense of security. Most people I know post something of their partner from time to time (every few months or so) and for me it’s a small way of reminding people you’re off the market.
What is wrong with you? You cannot have a baby with a person you were not who was cheating on you, because at some point in the future your child might feel bad or might not about your ex moving on. Oh so you have no guarantee that they will leave and get along you can I just have a baby to fulfill hypotheticals like a human being is an Amazon wish list. These are children actual human beings with feelings of their own.
It would be incredibly selfish and flawed to bring a baby into this world just because you think it will fix your relationship, mostly because you were absolutely not do that a baby is not about you.
Get out now. It’s not just living with his mom. It’s just as you said- he isn’t an adult. Is his mom cooking, cleaning, and doing his laundry? Even if he agreed to move out tomorrow- it wouldn’t be enough. Read all the posts from women who are with men who do not do a thing to clean or maintain the house.
If nobody likes your partner you should reconsider dating them. If you constantly trash talk your partner to your friends and family nobody is going to like them. Either your partner is awful or you've created the negative perception of your partner by venting about them to everybody close to you. It's incredibly disrespectful to criticize your partner behind their backs. They're not there to defend themselves.
It's only TWO months and she finds you/the relationship boring…
Move on to someone who actually likes you and finds you interesting.
Typically yes.
Opening relationships for the sake of fixing something, seldom work out. Let alone open relationship due to exploration.
What makes this even more challenging, it's an LDR, which also have a high fail rate.
LDRs are a massive complication and hurdle to deal with. Not saying they're busted, but they need rapid progression for success. Like you two need to get to each-other asap to eliminate the distance.. people need their partner accessible. And the lack of access here, is pushing you towards an open relationship.
This sounds like a lost cause tbh. You two are a fantasy for each-other.
I'd say take it on the chin and break it off. You both would be much happier having a partner closer to home.
Lol that doesn’t change anything it’s literally another dude at his house while he is in another country lol no guy would feel 100% comfortable with that
I guess for me I’d gain some weird sense of security. Most people I know post something of their partner from time to time (every few months or so) and for me it’s a small way of reminding people you’re off the market.
Honestly, the only thing missing from the post was a “Stay toxic!” at the end.
What is wrong with you? You cannot have a baby with a person you were not who was cheating on you, because at some point in the future your child might feel bad or might not about your ex moving on. Oh so you have no guarantee that they will leave and get along you can I just have a baby to fulfill hypotheticals like a human being is an Amazon wish list. These are children actual human beings with feelings of their own.
It would be incredibly selfish and flawed to bring a baby into this world just because you think it will fix your relationship, mostly because you were absolutely not do that a baby is not about you.
This is the best and safest play right here. Thanks
Tigers don't change their stripes, toadstools don't change their spots.
I’m a parent and I think OP is the a-hole here.
To be steady and wants more. Fwb leads to feeling for one eventually
Wow. No partner of mine would ever be my partner if they tried to tell me where I can go.
Don't let this man dictate your time. It's awful. You are your own person. Take control over your own life and live! for you.
P.s. this is not a boundary. This is control.
cheater or a troll? take your pick
What is the difference between telling him you love him and professing your love? What does professing entail and mean?
Get out now. It’s not just living with his mom. It’s just as you said- he isn’t an adult. Is his mom cooking, cleaning, and doing his laundry? Even if he agreed to move out tomorrow- it wouldn’t be enough. Read all the posts from women who are with men who do not do a thing to clean or maintain the house.
He IS holding you back.
If nobody likes your partner you should reconsider dating them. If you constantly trash talk your partner to your friends and family nobody is going to like them. Either your partner is awful or you've created the negative perception of your partner by venting about them to everybody close to you. It's incredibly disrespectful to criticize your partner behind their backs. They're not there to defend themselves.