I’m “give ‘em a taste of their own medicine” petty so I’d mention that no-one’s ever 100% happy with their partner, and that everyone has something they’d change about them but most don’t mention it because they’re too polite and kind so they pretend their partner is “just perfect” She will immediately ask what you would change about her, reply that she is “Just Perfect” with the exact same inflection as the way you said it earlier. When she feels annoyed, say the way she is feeling is the way she made you feel, she can take you like you are or you can both break up.
Or you can not play games and tell her to go fuck herself.
Relationships you have at 18 rarely go the distance, don’t be too upset if it doesn’t work out
Just tell him the truth but you don't have the best memory but you are trying you just have trouble remembering. If he still acts this way after that then he is just being an asshole.
How is anyone else supposed to know? We don’t know him, we don’t know you, we don’t know anything about the relationship except how long you’ve been together. With no other info to go off I’d bet that you being young enough to be his daughter may be a factor, but again — we literally don’t know anything about him or your relationship.
Situations like this are why there should be clear and defined boundaries in a relationship, that are clear and present to yourself and others.
“Semi-Open” seems like a label/classification that would bring up more confusion and misunderstanding than it would clear up.
John is someone outside your relationship so how could he have possibly known the intricacies of your “Semi-Open” relationship, the fault isn't with John the fault lies with the lack of clear lines for others to see.
Most people see doors as Open or Closed, not Semi-Open…
This man has a problem. It’s likely a sex/sex worker/porn addiction. He should probably be talking about it with a professional!
In the meantime – you must express that this behavior is simply not ok. Are you ok with him going to strip clubs and being on websites with escorts? Establish that boundary and dump him if he breaches it
Yeah, that's nothing to be worried about imo if you're happy with him. Sounds like they're worrying too much. I thought you meant he did life-changing stupid actions. A person can definitely work with cluelessness if he has other great attributes. Not everyone has to be a business mogul either. I wish you two the best!
Seriously stuff like this ends up fucking up relationships. I had one tht went like this it's toxic and will become more of an obsession and stupid nitpicked fighting about insecurities after a long term of dating. Ended tht relationship because obviously was a fucking mess.
I've been with my husband for 12 years. I love being in communication. He fucking sucks at it. We've had to work on it when we started dating. Hes the kind tht would still have a full battery after a whole day because he cant be bothered with his phone.
So when we started dating we talked about communication. If you're busy cool let me know so i don't bother u during whatever ur doing. And if u get home shoot me a text il get it when i wake up its cool jst so i knw ur home. We have the same rule now. And we didn't keep tabs on ooh u came bk late…she's an adult woman!
I go out on girls nights i keep my phone on me bt i don't text him constantly id let him know we got to where we went safely and if i need him he always keeps his phone on when he goes to bed. Same applies for his boys nights. Bare minimum requirement is keep your phone charged incase of an emergency.
If you trust your partner u don't need to knw each step they take. She'll tell u about it when she can. Don't try to sit up and wait for her to update u on anything and dont stew in anger when she doesnt. When you are with your friends u want to be present with them and not on your phone worrying about checking in like u have a prison guard or your dad waiting for u for curfew.
Yall should relax. Its really not tht deep. Dont become tht toxic couple with rules all over the place ur just gonna upset yourself over nothing and she's gonna start feeling like you dont trust her and want to keep her in a glass case.
This person constantly trolls r/oasis
I’m “give ‘em a taste of their own medicine” petty so I’d mention that no-one’s ever 100% happy with their partner, and that everyone has something they’d change about them but most don’t mention it because they’re too polite and kind so they pretend their partner is “just perfect” She will immediately ask what you would change about her, reply that she is “Just Perfect” with the exact same inflection as the way you said it earlier. When she feels annoyed, say the way she is feeling is the way she made you feel, she can take you like you are or you can both break up.
Or you can not play games and tell her to go fuck herself.
Relationships you have at 18 rarely go the distance, don’t be too upset if it doesn’t work out
Just tell him the truth but you don't have the best memory but you are trying you just have trouble remembering. If he still acts this way after that then he is just being an asshole.
i think so too, i realized this could be the key for things to get better between us i cant thank you enough!
Get a job. Get your own place. Get a boyfriend who's not controlling and ridiculous.
Not necessarily in that order.
How is anyone else supposed to know? We don’t know him, we don’t know you, we don’t know anything about the relationship except how long you’ve been together. With no other info to go off I’d bet that you being young enough to be his daughter may be a factor, but again — we literally don’t know anything about him or your relationship.
Situations like this are why there should be clear and defined boundaries in a relationship, that are clear and present to yourself and others.
“Semi-Open” seems like a label/classification that would bring up more confusion and misunderstanding than it would clear up.
John is someone outside your relationship so how could he have possibly known the intricacies of your “Semi-Open” relationship, the fault isn't with John the fault lies with the lack of clear lines for others to see.
Most people see doors as Open or Closed, not Semi-Open…
“If I knew I would tell you”
This man has a problem. It’s likely a sex/sex worker/porn addiction. He should probably be talking about it with a professional!
In the meantime – you must express that this behavior is simply not ok. Are you ok with him going to strip clubs and being on websites with escorts? Establish that boundary and dump him if he breaches it
Yeah, that's nothing to be worried about imo if you're happy with him. Sounds like they're worrying too much. I thought you meant he did life-changing stupid actions. A person can definitely work with cluelessness if he has other great attributes. Not everyone has to be a business mogul either. I wish you two the best!
Seriously stuff like this ends up fucking up relationships. I had one tht went like this it's toxic and will become more of an obsession and stupid nitpicked fighting about insecurities after a long term of dating. Ended tht relationship because obviously was a fucking mess.
I've been with my husband for 12 years. I love being in communication. He fucking sucks at it. We've had to work on it when we started dating. Hes the kind tht would still have a full battery after a whole day because he cant be bothered with his phone.
So when we started dating we talked about communication. If you're busy cool let me know so i don't bother u during whatever ur doing. And if u get home shoot me a text il get it when i wake up its cool jst so i knw ur home. We have the same rule now. And we didn't keep tabs on ooh u came bk late…she's an adult woman!
I go out on girls nights i keep my phone on me bt i don't text him constantly id let him know we got to where we went safely and if i need him he always keeps his phone on when he goes to bed. Same applies for his boys nights. Bare minimum requirement is keep your phone charged incase of an emergency.
If you trust your partner u don't need to knw each step they take. She'll tell u about it when she can. Don't try to sit up and wait for her to update u on anything and dont stew in anger when she doesnt. When you are with your friends u want to be present with them and not on your phone worrying about checking in like u have a prison guard or your dad waiting for u for curfew.
Yall should relax. Its really not tht deep. Dont become tht toxic couple with rules all over the place ur just gonna upset yourself over nothing and she's gonna start feeling like you dont trust her and want to keep her in a glass case.