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He needs to bring up what he did as to why y’all are divorced and why you moved on – 100% his fault
Sorry you didn’t shrivel up and die when he checked out. And you need to keep it going without him. You can coparent without sacrificing your self worth to this clown.
I’m pretty conflicted. I’m childfree by choice and necessity.
I understand where your SO is coming from. I too wanted love without the “I only care about you because you have two functioning ovaries and a uterus” mentality.
It SUCKS to love someone and to be thrown away because you won’t go through a life altering and potentially life ending major medical procedure.
But I also understand that children are a VERY personal choice and that guys have it rough.
Any woman who wants kids and functionally can have them can get pregnant even without a man’s knowing consent. Often without repercussions. They can even get pregnant from donated samples in a clean safe environment, bypassing a man altogether.
Men have to build a relationship, convince someone to like them as a person enough to want some kind of intimacy and then somehow stay in that person’s life long enough to raise that child. If finances are limited or the woman they have a child with decides that they aren’t compatible then best case, the guy gets 50% custody. Worst case, he doesn’t see his child until they are adults if he is lucky.
Since this is an advice sub here is my advice.
Your SO loves you and she loves herself. For three years she has felt that the only way you would love her is if she risks her life to bring another child into this world.
She finally couldn’t reconcile the two lies she has been telling. The one she told you, that she wanted another child. And the one she told her self, that she could bring herself to have another child.
It SUCKS figuring this out now. Because you will ultimately prove her right. You may love her, but it is conditional and when weighed against your future biological children, she looses.
I do advise you to end the relationship. What your SO doesn’t realize yet is that being upfront about these things is the only way to have a meaningful relationship with someone. She needs to go into her next relationship with full disclosure that she is done having kids and is happy to co-parent, but won’t be getting pregnant again.
At this point in her life, she needs someone who loves her, not her uterus.
I just wanna say I really commend how you sat down with your feelings and reflected on them and worked through them in such a healthy way. Sounds like you and your fiancé have a relationship a lot of people would want, it’s really great that you both communicate and understand each other so well!
I believe it could also be the matter of reputation and social standards
Being afraid of that person portraying you as all the worst to other family members
Also social standards, one will put up with so much bullshit because they've always been told that family comes first and family is forever, almost like being brainwashed
He needs to bring up what he did as to why y’all are divorced and why you moved on – 100% his fault
Sorry you didn’t shrivel up and die when he checked out. And you need to keep it going without him. You can coparent without sacrificing your self worth to this clown.
Cheating and offering ur kid money to keep her mouth shut is pretty scummy imo.
This has been going on for 5 years? She might be depressed because she's not doing anything, not contributing anything and you're enabling her.
I’m pretty conflicted. I’m childfree by choice and necessity.
I understand where your SO is coming from. I too wanted love without the “I only care about you because you have two functioning ovaries and a uterus” mentality.
It SUCKS to love someone and to be thrown away because you won’t go through a life altering and potentially life ending major medical procedure.
But I also understand that children are a VERY personal choice and that guys have it rough.
Any woman who wants kids and functionally can have them can get pregnant even without a man’s knowing consent. Often without repercussions. They can even get pregnant from donated samples in a clean safe environment, bypassing a man altogether.
Men have to build a relationship, convince someone to like them as a person enough to want some kind of intimacy and then somehow stay in that person’s life long enough to raise that child. If finances are limited or the woman they have a child with decides that they aren’t compatible then best case, the guy gets 50% custody. Worst case, he doesn’t see his child until they are adults if he is lucky.
Since this is an advice sub here is my advice.
Your SO loves you and she loves herself. For three years she has felt that the only way you would love her is if she risks her life to bring another child into this world.
She finally couldn’t reconcile the two lies she has been telling. The one she told you, that she wanted another child. And the one she told her self, that she could bring herself to have another child.
It SUCKS figuring this out now. Because you will ultimately prove her right. You may love her, but it is conditional and when weighed against your future biological children, she looses.
I do advise you to end the relationship. What your SO doesn’t realize yet is that being upfront about these things is the only way to have a meaningful relationship with someone. She needs to go into her next relationship with full disclosure that she is done having kids and is happy to co-parent, but won’t be getting pregnant again.
At this point in her life, she needs someone who loves her, not her uterus.
I just wanna say I really commend how you sat down with your feelings and reflected on them and worked through them in such a healthy way. Sounds like you and your fiancé have a relationship a lot of people would want, it’s really great that you both communicate and understand each other so well!
Well your comment prioritized “the age gap thing” which is… an accusation of grooming lol.
He wants to leech off of her and hopes she's too young and dumb to catch on.
I believe it could also be the matter of reputation and social standards
Being afraid of that person portraying you as all the worst to other family members
Also social standards, one will put up with so much bullshit because they've always been told that family comes first and family is forever, almost like being brainwashed