To start, you say always, which means there's more context that needs to be provided. If that's the case, can you provide more examples?
I ask, because for this one isolated incident, while you're not wrong for not liking the picture, it also is a ridiculous complaint in the big scheme of things. That doesn't mean it's also ok that she compares everything to her either, but in this situation, you weren't thinking big picture or knowing your audience. You essentially told someone who you know who's parents don't acknowledge her successes “my parents publicly showed their support for me, but ugh they suck because the picture they chose is awful.” It's an absurd thing to say to her.
Your argument here doesn't support the context. This isn't about her making a good thing happening to you a problem because she's unlucky; she's calling out the fact that you're complaining about nonsense. She's calling out your complaint, not the picture.
So again, I'd love more examples. But here, you're in the wrong.
Tell you husband immediately. Right now. This is not okay. Your BIL will lie and say you did it or something. Tell him. Protect yourself and do not allow BIL to come back over your house. And his wife needs to know.
Why I haven’t I seen anyone else say this. You’re a mark. She’s conning you.
I could be wrong. I’ve never actually met her. But from everything you’ve said, she either sounds like she’s deliberately doing these things or she’s just unsure.
Either way, I wouldn’t mess with it anymore. She’s young anyway, if your not a mark, then it’s okay she’ll find someone more her speed.
You should not be concerned. But your boyfriend should be. I'd dump you for going through my phone. You had ZERO right to violate his privacy that way, and he deserves better than you. His password and what it means is also none of your business.
Honey, this isn't about the groceries. This is about him consistently failing you as a partner.
He should be lifting you up. Instead he is making you feel guilty for trying to stick to the plan that you made together.
He's not paying bills, so what is he contributing?
Honey, a good therapist can help you determine if this relationship truly serves your needs or not. You deserve a soft life full of love and a partner who contributes meaningfully to that. You are worthy.
Why are you accepting this as what you deserve? You partner should make you feel good.
She wasn’t lmao. That’s the whole point! She wasn’t seeing him at all, she just met him as a friend
To start, you say always, which means there's more context that needs to be provided. If that's the case, can you provide more examples?
I ask, because for this one isolated incident, while you're not wrong for not liking the picture, it also is a ridiculous complaint in the big scheme of things. That doesn't mean it's also ok that she compares everything to her either, but in this situation, you weren't thinking big picture or knowing your audience. You essentially told someone who you know who's parents don't acknowledge her successes “my parents publicly showed their support for me, but ugh they suck because the picture they chose is awful.” It's an absurd thing to say to her.
Your argument here doesn't support the context. This isn't about her making a good thing happening to you a problem because she's unlucky; she's calling out the fact that you're complaining about nonsense. She's calling out your complaint, not the picture.
So again, I'd love more examples. But here, you're in the wrong.
Tell you husband immediately. Right now. This is not okay. Your BIL will lie and say you did it or something. Tell him. Protect yourself and do not allow BIL to come back over your house. And his wife needs to know.
You got it
Why I haven’t I seen anyone else say this. You’re a mark. She’s conning you.
I could be wrong. I’ve never actually met her. But from everything you’ve said, she either sounds like she’s deliberately doing these things or she’s just unsure.
Either way, I wouldn’t mess with it anymore. She’s young anyway, if your not a mark, then it’s okay she’ll find someone more her speed.
You should not be concerned. But your boyfriend should be. I'd dump you for going through my phone. You had ZERO right to violate his privacy that way, and he deserves better than you. His password and what it means is also none of your business.
Good for you, sounds like it’s not affecting your relationship. Again, I would t care if it was t affecting our sex life. It is
Honey, this isn't about the groceries. This is about him consistently failing you as a partner.
He should be lifting you up. Instead he is making you feel guilty for trying to stick to the plan that you made together.
He's not paying bills, so what is he contributing?
Honey, a good therapist can help you determine if this relationship truly serves your needs or not. You deserve a soft life full of love and a partner who contributes meaningfully to that. You are worthy.
Why are you accepting this as what you deserve? You partner should make you feel good.
Run like hell through that open door.