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I met this guy he was very different from the rest mostly because he was what I wanted for a long time. But I realized as we got older his surroundings were changing. He wasn’t really the same with me. I broke up with him and we never talked we never even tried . I think he knew we both still had feelings for eachother but we parted ways. To tell you the truth sometimes I think about my past relationships what could I have done differently?.. and the answer is be honest with yourself. You can’t keep holding yourself back for a guy who is having to leave and coming back. I was thinking about my ex and a bad experience that happened with me and it was just holding me back from relationships. when I met my new boyfriend. I knew he liked me and I was trying to go out again and get an ego boost. But I stopped everything and thought to myself. I will be honest with my ex and tell him my feelings but after that I know things won’t be the same because too much time has past. I have this new guy that is great . He is more than great and that’s what I’ve wanted in a guy . I have thought sometimes would I go back and change things between my ex ? No … because i met someone else when I was at my most vulnerable and sad part of understanding i just have to let it go. Let him go and find someone who is there with you .
Well, at least here in the United States, many Jews have adopted Christmas Day as the day for their Hanukkah gathering, simply because Christmas Day is a National Holiday, where as Hanukkah is not. Just a matter of convenience. Perhaps, your friends are celebrating their Holiday, as well. But, they know that for you, Christmas Day is the most important day of all the days, and felt that you might be uncomfortable attending their celebration when you should be observing and celebrating your own religious beliefs? Maybe, they did not want to prevent you from following your religious practices.
If OP's mom and sister online close and would be available last minute, why didn't he ask one of them to come over every day for 30 minutes so he could grab a coffee on the way to work?
Your girl sounds like she has a very masculine level of aggression that is very common nowadays; confrontational and defensive. If you say something, she is quick to jump down your throat because “She won't take no shit form anyone.”
Leave her alone. If she wants to throw a tantrum, break up, give you silent treatment… LET HER. If you chase after her, texting, apologizing, trying to “talk things out” you will lose this game she is playing, and a tiny piece of your authoritative value in the relationship will chip away. Leaver her alone… I promise you, if you leave her completely alone, she will realize that you aren't broken in pieces, and come running back.
Oh, got it. I’m sorry. I wouldn’t give him another chance based on a great first impression. He’s not ready. If you take him back, you’ll be the one he’ll take his frustrations out on. It’s up to you if that happens. Just be careful bc you don’t want to end up damaged when the next great guy comes around.
That's what makes this so painful, if I'd just been honest there would be no problem. My wife has said at much.
What you're saying makes sense except I often feel the need to hide things (even mundane things like what food I eat), I guess time for me to go to therapy and figure out wth is going on with me.
Yeah, but in my opinion, it can't simply be taught by you. I would think you'd need to suggest he go to some kind of sensitivity training. Maybe you give him an ultimatum since he doesn't seem to take you seriously.
Then, if he's unwilling to still take you seriously, maybe that's your answer. But also, maybe he is just really dense and not in touch with the serious emotions involved. But if he is willing to take you seriously after you make the consequences more real, then maybe he can change.
In the world of non-monogamy this is what's called a “one penis policy” (OPP) and it's viewed as highly unethical and homophobic.
The issue here is that he doesn't believe it's possible for you to leave him for another woman. You couldn't possibly prefer a lowly vagina to his Great And Mighty Penis, but if there were a Greater And Mightier Penis there could be a problem. So no other penises for you.
See how that's pretty homophobic?
And what happens if you meet a trans person you're into? Do you have to decide if they're an option based on their genitalia, or their presenting gender?
The reality is that sex is sex no matter what kind of equipment someone's packing. Opening to see people of whatever gender(s) you're attracted to can be awesome if you've both got exceptional communication and conflict resolution skills. He sounds like he's got a long way to go.
She probably still has a boyfriend. She notices you because you keep noticing her. That doesn't mean she likes you. Women tend to keep an eye on guys who seem too interested. It's a self-preservation tactic.
Do NOT “find her in person” and talk to her. You mention nothing in your post about having any other conversations with her, so cornering her to confess your crush would just be creepy.
By the way, if you believe things happen for a reason, the fact you haven't been seeing her around may well be the universe telling you to back off and look elsewhere.
I met this guy he was very different from the rest mostly because he was what I wanted for a long time. But I realized as we got older his surroundings were changing. He wasn’t really the same with me. I broke up with him and we never talked we never even tried . I think he knew we both still had feelings for eachother but we parted ways. To tell you the truth sometimes I think about my past relationships what could I have done differently?.. and the answer is be honest with yourself. You can’t keep holding yourself back for a guy who is having to leave and coming back. I was thinking about my ex and a bad experience that happened with me and it was just holding me back from relationships. when I met my new boyfriend. I knew he liked me and I was trying to go out again and get an ego boost. But I stopped everything and thought to myself. I will be honest with my ex and tell him my feelings but after that I know things won’t be the same because too much time has past. I have this new guy that is great . He is more than great and that’s what I’ve wanted in a guy . I have thought sometimes would I go back and change things between my ex ? No … because i met someone else when I was at my most vulnerable and sad part of understanding i just have to let it go. Let him go and find someone who is there with you .
She is staying at his apartment?
Seriously dude?
You know what she is doing. Have you had a paternity test for your child? I hope you regularly get STD/STI screenings.
Well, at least here in the United States, many Jews have adopted Christmas Day as the day for their Hanukkah gathering, simply because Christmas Day is a National Holiday, where as Hanukkah is not. Just a matter of convenience. Perhaps, your friends are celebrating their Holiday, as well. But, they know that for you, Christmas Day is the most important day of all the days, and felt that you might be uncomfortable attending their celebration when you should be observing and celebrating your own religious beliefs? Maybe, they did not want to prevent you from following your religious practices.
Just a theory.
I understand but surely comparing it to death is a bit over the top no?
I very rarely cancel meetings. I tend to be extremely apologetic and will always reschedule. I am not a hypocrite.
If OP's mom and sister online close and would be available last minute, why didn't he ask one of them to come over every day for 30 minutes so he could grab a coffee on the way to work?
Can confirm. I was the target of my mothers abuse while my two brothers never got any of it. ?♀️
They are in fact ready to accept the return. But I want to keep it and make the effort to wear it occasionally.
I just want to communicate this to my husband without making him feel bad
Your girl sounds like she has a very masculine level of aggression that is very common nowadays; confrontational and defensive. If you say something, she is quick to jump down your throat because “She won't take no shit form anyone.”
Leave her alone. If she wants to throw a tantrum, break up, give you silent treatment… LET HER. If you chase after her, texting, apologizing, trying to “talk things out” you will lose this game she is playing, and a tiny piece of your authoritative value in the relationship will chip away. Leaver her alone… I promise you, if you leave her completely alone, she will realize that you aren't broken in pieces, and come running back.
Damn, the only thing you have to compare is something she did years ago?
I’m glad you feel safe. So why are you acting like you are still together? What is it that is making you want to do that?
Oh, got it. I’m sorry. I wouldn’t give him another chance based on a great first impression. He’s not ready. If you take him back, you’ll be the one he’ll take his frustrations out on. It’s up to you if that happens. Just be careful bc you don’t want to end up damaged when the next great guy comes around.
That's what makes this so painful, if I'd just been honest there would be no problem. My wife has said at much.
What you're saying makes sense except I often feel the need to hide things (even mundane things like what food I eat), I guess time for me to go to therapy and figure out wth is going on with me.
Yeah, but in my opinion, it can't simply be taught by you. I would think you'd need to suggest he go to some kind of sensitivity training. Maybe you give him an ultimatum since he doesn't seem to take you seriously.
Then, if he's unwilling to still take you seriously, maybe that's your answer. But also, maybe he is just really dense and not in touch with the serious emotions involved. But if he is willing to take you seriously after you make the consequences more real, then maybe he can change.
In the world of non-monogamy this is what's called a “one penis policy” (OPP) and it's viewed as highly unethical and homophobic.
The issue here is that he doesn't believe it's possible for you to leave him for another woman. You couldn't possibly prefer a lowly vagina to his Great And Mighty Penis, but if there were a Greater And Mightier Penis there could be a problem. So no other penises for you.
See how that's pretty homophobic?
And what happens if you meet a trans person you're into? Do you have to decide if they're an option based on their genitalia, or their presenting gender?
The reality is that sex is sex no matter what kind of equipment someone's packing. Opening to see people of whatever gender(s) you're attracted to can be awesome if you've both got exceptional communication and conflict resolution skills. He sounds like he's got a long way to go.
She probably still has a boyfriend. She notices you because you keep noticing her. That doesn't mean she likes you. Women tend to keep an eye on guys who seem too interested. It's a self-preservation tactic.
Do NOT “find her in person” and talk to her. You mention nothing in your post about having any other conversations with her, so cornering her to confess your crush would just be creepy.
By the way, if you believe things happen for a reason, the fact you haven't been seeing her around may well be the universe telling you to back off and look elsewhere.