Right, that's what my post is about. The problem is, it goes on for long periods of time. It just seems a bit strange to me that he “doesn't want to” for that long.
This stood out to me. People are arguing over whether or not giving someone a flower is a romantic gesture. They are missing the fact that that the friend clearly thought it could be interpreted that way, and did it anyway. It's possible it was at worst casual flirting and she would never go any farther. The problem is she is knowingly skirting a line, and your boyfriend isn't comfortable with it.
The question is, do you want a boundary in your relationship where you and your partner are both OK with casual flirting with friends who are potential romantic partners. Yes is a perfectly fine answer, but your bf clearly doesn't want that, and he's not wrong for that either.
idk how to walk away
Easy: pack your bags, and get out! Obviously, there are other steps involving legal stuff but that first one is a start!
Unless you want to stay in a toxic relationship where you don't trust her and have to deal with being cheated on forever
Yes you have a couple great points thank you !
Right, that's what my post is about. The problem is, it goes on for long periods of time. It just seems a bit strange to me that he “doesn't want to” for that long.
i didn’t know if to give it to your or not lol
This stood out to me. People are arguing over whether or not giving someone a flower is a romantic gesture. They are missing the fact that that the friend clearly thought it could be interpreted that way, and did it anyway. It's possible it was at worst casual flirting and she would never go any farther. The problem is she is knowingly skirting a line, and your boyfriend isn't comfortable with it.
The question is, do you want a boundary in your relationship where you and your partner are both OK with casual flirting with friends who are potential romantic partners. Yes is a perfectly fine answer, but your bf clearly doesn't want that, and he's not wrong for that either.
Please drop this controlling AH!