There’s no way this all accidental. It doesn’t matter how clumsy you are, anyone who cares about their partner will make the effort to not hurt them. It’s not funny, it’s not cute, it’s not “oopsie look what I did lol”. He is physically injuring you and making no attempt to resolve it. OP, that is abusive and you are being abused, even if he thinks it’s funny or not that serious. He needs a serious wake up call and you need to advocate for yourself
No. It's standardized to talk about it and measure from the last period. The medical staff do not change it for people's feelings. After working in healthcare I can also tell you lots of medical staff don't seem to realize this is how we count things.
Her anger problems are her issue- not yours it’s not your fault she is in control of how she behaves- calling people names is nothing to do with being on your period- you maybe a little more irritable but this is just emotional abuse with a glossy cover of “it’s allowed because I’m PMSing” bullshit
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I know we love hyperbole and everything but there's certain some reason an adult can speak to a 15 year old. Am I just supposed to quit talking to my daughter when she's a teenager? Lol
An adult should not be flirting with a 15 year old. That's messed up.
Excuse me? I don’t think OP is the asshole at all. I think the wife is stuck up and fat too sensitive. Let’s be clear, there is no burnout in house cleaning, and getting texts from boss about misplaced objects or being asked to re clean a room is not abuse. Turning down an offer like that when your financial condition is not stable is bonkers, not to mention selfish when your husband is doing hard manual labor.
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You are an emotional selfish black hole. I would divorce you immediately. Your kids will be fine don’t bring them in to this to guilt your husband in to staying with you. You suck as a person a wife and a mother. Does your religion say anything about that?
I'm not reading this garbage. Fuck off, lol.
There’s no way this all accidental. It doesn’t matter how clumsy you are, anyone who cares about their partner will make the effort to not hurt them. It’s not funny, it’s not cute, it’s not “oopsie look what I did lol”. He is physically injuring you and making no attempt to resolve it. OP, that is abusive and you are being abused, even if he thinks it’s funny or not that serious. He needs a serious wake up call and you need to advocate for yourself
No. It's standardized to talk about it and measure from the last period. The medical staff do not change it for people's feelings. After working in healthcare I can also tell you lots of medical staff don't seem to realize this is how we count things.
There will always be some very hot times and times were When you need to work to make things work, but it shouldn't be miserable
Her anger problems are her issue- not yours it’s not your fault she is in control of how she behaves- calling people names is nothing to do with being on your period- you maybe a little more irritable but this is just emotional abuse with a glossy cover of “it’s allowed because I’m PMSing” bullshit
Go with him to that gay club and see how he responds to everything. They’re a lot of fun. Great music anyway!!
I hope a replaceable backpack won’t become a huge wedge in your relationship man, that’s just crazy
It sounds like he doesn’t even like you, never,ind love you.
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i appreciate the advice. I’m definitely going to think about this more before making any decisions
I know we love hyperbole and everything but there's certain some reason an adult can speak to a 15 year old. Am I just supposed to quit talking to my daughter when she's a teenager? Lol
An adult should not be flirting with a 15 year old. That's messed up.
Excuse me? I don’t think OP is the asshole at all. I think the wife is stuck up and fat too sensitive. Let’s be clear, there is no burnout in house cleaning, and getting texts from boss about misplaced objects or being asked to re clean a room is not abuse. Turning down an offer like that when your financial condition is not stable is bonkers, not to mention selfish when your husband is doing hard manual labor.
Unless you break up with him, what happened the past 24 hours will happen forever. Be smart.
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You deserve better.
Soon the kid will be old and the bf will be doing a Benjamin Button
Invite her to hang out
You are an emotional selfish black hole. I would divorce you immediately. Your kids will be fine don’t bring them in to this to guilt your husband in to staying with you. You suck as a person a wife and a mother. Does your religion say anything about that?
She needs to control things in order to feel safe is EXACTLY it!
Too bad she can’t engage in supportive couples counseling.
sounds complicated. what about her family background? sounds like she has low confidence and need constant validation.
I was thinking the same thing! Are u talking to him much more often?
No, it doesn't.