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Date: October 21, 2022
My mother almost got pregnant with an abusive man. He was so mean and violet. The best thing for you and especially your kids is to leave him. Im begging you, even if you don’t want to leave, your kids need it.
Okay, so maybe I might get shit on for saying that, but… OP, it doesn't sound like you're ready to be in a relationship yet.
What your girlfriend said and did, especially in front of your child, is horrible and monstrous and shouldn't be forgiven easily. It was 0% okay for her to do that, no questions asked.
But you need to get over your grief at least a bit more. If you are still in a stage of grief where you talk to photos which are all throughout your apartment, any new partner will likely feel insecure because it's clear that you're not ready to move on yet.
A good partner will respect your grief and late wife, but they also deserve to feel like they are your current partner. If they come to your place and it looks like your wife is still living there and you talk to her pictures instead of to your new partner, that just won't work.
It's normal to talk to lost loved ones at their grave. It's normal to visit that grave. It's normal to have a corner in your house where things and photos of the deceased are. But if, after over 10 years, you are still at a point where your deceased wife is everywhere and a new partner is thus confronted with her in every corner of your home, then this is not a place that can become their home yet. It means that in both your heart and your home, there is no place for them yet.
And that is fine. If you're not ready, you're not ready. But, if after ten years, your dead wife is still so present in your life that you feel like talking to her photos all the time, when your new partner is in your home, then you should probably find a new therapist because your old one wasn't able to help (and yes, I know from experience that this can very much happen).
Any chance *he* did something wrong and realizes that he doesn't have the balls to fess up to it, so ghosting is the easier alternative?
Can you move in with a friend or relative? If you value your life, get away from this guy.
You’re overthinking it to the point it’s unhealthy and can lead you to self-sabotage your own relationship. Why don’t you talk to him about it? Celebrity crushes are normal but if he was really obsessed over having her, he wouldn’t be wasting time with you.
Your BF is MASSIVELY tone deaf and in one fell swoop, he managed to not only disrespect your father to his face, but make himself sound like he condones and sympathizes with the murder of people in your fathers profession.
Does your father go around shooting innocent people? Does he deserve to die? Would your BF find it “understandable” if someone wanted to kill him? Would you be Ok with people talking about your dad like that? No? Think for a moment.
No offense, but at best, your BF sounds like a social moron and at worst, sounds like he's rooting for the murder of police.
There are a time and place for things. This was not one of them. Your BF needs to apologise to your dad, your dad acted remarkably calm and I can totally understand why he was upset.
Sympathizing for the murder of police because the force has a few bad apples is no better than sympathizing for the murder of POC because there's a few bad apples. There's a lot of injustice in this world but normal people don't empathise with & defend murder.
Your dad went through a lot of grief that day your BF's reaction to the tragedy was basically “They deserved it”.
That’s fine, I see both sides. I was just confused with so many people acting like a 19 year old is a pedo for dating a fellow teen lol. It’s weird, but not that weird.
Dogs are normally eating electronics?
ETA – that shit will kill them
Are these maybe college friends that she’s made? Maybe she hasn’t known them as long, but they are close now.
I’m not American either, I’m Swedish. I even know people in countries in poverty who’ve gotten antipsychotics vs anxiety. Seems very strange to me that OP isn’t being treated. If the story is true she has to get a new doctor.
I just. I feel like a failure of a woman and girlfriend. I’m not enough. I can’t give enough. I want it to stop, but I’m also not willing to lose him over this. So I guess I suck it up.
Quick, easy answer…. break up. Find someone who doesn't bore you. Do you really think people change? (hint: they don't).