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Dude, you were assaulted. File a police report. Being drunk is never an excuse, it just removes inhibitors (I.e. you see more of what the person is really like).
So you don’t think there’s a chance of it working at all? Because I want it to work, and if she isn’t comfortable with opening the relationship I wouldn’t push for that, I’d continue in the exclusive relationship.
Thank you for your advice! When we bicker the biggest “problem” is that every single time she tells me after I was right and she was wrong and she loves me. Every time even if I was completely wrong and an asshole. She just wants to love me and then I feel worse for pushing.
If she wants things a working man at 35 years old can provide, then maybe she shouldn't be with someone who's the same age and at the same stage in life as her.
Personally, I'd give her the opportunity to go find what she wants by ending it with her. The grass isn't greener, let her find that out the hot way.
Expressing one’s love for an unavailable person via text/messenger is NOT normal. This is grounds for kicking her out of the game night group that you host in your home.
You might do more damage pushing a relationship. It's not about if there's something better, it's about the moment for you, and if you don't feel like being in a relationship don't push it.
Legal grounds will probably vary by state. Some states tend not to view violation of consent that contingent on use of a condom as criminal. Other states do.
This behaviour doesn’t get better when they’re used to being mothered. Not saying you’re doing anything wrong, the opposite actually. You have every right to expect a partner who contributes equally.
Also, for me, mess and chaos makes me more anxious and depressed, makes me feel overwhelmed. Don’t let this feral man’s lack of responsibility affect you.
Listen, you’re going to have to put your family in their place when it comes to relationships. They don’t get to behave like that to people, family or strangers.
I know you’re accustomed to it because you have been subjected to it for a lifetime but it’s not ok behavior, especially if someone comes from a totally different cultural background.
Your parents already have expectations on who your partner will be, I mean your dad was already hounding about religious views to see if it matched with what they believe or worship, that’s no bueno.
I’m assuming your bf was white or at least, not if Latin heritage, so he probably also felt like a zoo animal with people gawking at him like their own personal entertainment.
You need to make strong boundaries to your family. I have a crazy family. They are loud, they are rude at times, they are in your shit… but I made some serious road blockers between them and my spouse because my spouse is my family now, they are back burner family vomited to my husband and my kids. If they don’t like that tough shit, honestly.
That’s how it goes and I’m well aware of how “faaaamily” works within Latino households but that’s just not how it works with a SO.
You really need boundaries because when you have a family if your own they will try and steam roll all over your new family that you created, you can not aloe that and be afraid of getting chewed out.
Best thing you can do is show how good of a worker you can be. Mental health is something personal and your work ethic should be more important, especially if this is something you are already handling. Also try not to clam up and come off as overly shy, being able to speak up for yourself is important.
I definitely think you're right. 🙁 Did you end up taking your dishes/ things out if the main area so that they didn't get destroyed? I'm currently contemplating.
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Dude, you were assaulted. File a police report. Being drunk is never an excuse, it just removes inhibitors (I.e. you see more of what the person is really like).
So you don’t think there’s a chance of it working at all? Because I want it to work, and if she isn’t comfortable with opening the relationship I wouldn’t push for that, I’d continue in the exclusive relationship.
You can hate an animal and still love animals in general
That dog sounds annoying af and it's not the dog, it's how it's raised but it still really annoying as a result
Thank you for your advice! When we bicker the biggest “problem” is that every single time she tells me after I was right and she was wrong and she loves me. Every time even if I was completely wrong and an asshole. She just wants to love me and then I feel worse for pushing.
If she wants things a working man at 35 years old can provide, then maybe she shouldn't be with someone who's the same age and at the same stage in life as her.
Personally, I'd give her the opportunity to go find what she wants by ending it with her. The grass isn't greener, let her find that out the hot way.
Expressing one’s love for an unavailable person via text/messenger is NOT normal. This is grounds for kicking her out of the game night group that you host in your home.
You might do more damage pushing a relationship. It's not about if there's something better, it's about the moment for you, and if you don't feel like being in a relationship don't push it.
Legal grounds will probably vary by state. Some states tend not to view violation of consent that contingent on use of a condom as criminal. Other states do.
This behaviour doesn’t get better when they’re used to being mothered. Not saying you’re doing anything wrong, the opposite actually. You have every right to expect a partner who contributes equally.
Also, for me, mess and chaos makes me more anxious and depressed, makes me feel overwhelmed. Don’t let this feral man’s lack of responsibility affect you.
You’ve outgrown him, move without him.
Listen, you’re going to have to put your family in their place when it comes to relationships. They don’t get to behave like that to people, family or strangers.
I know you’re accustomed to it because you have been subjected to it for a lifetime but it’s not ok behavior, especially if someone comes from a totally different cultural background.
Your parents already have expectations on who your partner will be, I mean your dad was already hounding about religious views to see if it matched with what they believe or worship, that’s no bueno.
I’m assuming your bf was white or at least, not if Latin heritage, so he probably also felt like a zoo animal with people gawking at him like their own personal entertainment.
You need to make strong boundaries to your family. I have a crazy family. They are loud, they are rude at times, they are in your shit… but I made some serious road blockers between them and my spouse because my spouse is my family now, they are back burner family vomited to my husband and my kids. If they don’t like that tough shit, honestly.
That’s how it goes and I’m well aware of how “faaaamily” works within Latino households but that’s just not how it works with a SO.
You really need boundaries because when you have a family if your own they will try and steam roll all over your new family that you created, you can not aloe that and be afraid of getting chewed out.
Best thing you can do is show how good of a worker you can be. Mental health is something personal and your work ethic should be more important, especially if this is something you are already handling. Also try not to clam up and come off as overly shy, being able to speak up for yourself is important.
I definitely think you're right. 🙁 Did you end up taking your dishes/ things out if the main area so that they didn't get destroyed? I'm currently contemplating.