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At this point you are still not quite 100% sure that Lauren is the same chick that you drove home from the bar that night- so admitting to knocking her up and fathering her 5 year old child would make you look absolutely insane— especially if— it wasn’t.
I would casually mention to Lauren that she looks really familiar- maybe you went to school together? Mutual friends? If in fact this is your baby momma- she will know that this is a super inappropriate time for the truth- but she will pick up on the question. Or maybe he reminds me of (yourself or a nephew of YOURS) when (person) was that age. And laugh it off as a normal comment.
See how she reacts.
If this is your child- it will eventually have to be addressed- but Sara is never going to forgive either of you for having not informed her if you’ve been together.
Thank you I’ll try
Tell his wife!!!
What you’ve said about him being sweet, liking each other and sharing the same interests and hobbies is all very nice but you’ve also stated you’re still at the get-to-know-each-other phase. Which means there’s a good chance you’ll run into obstacles on a longer term. If I have to think about simple obstacles, just off the top of my head, I’d say imagine living together and watching TV. Reading the newspaper. Having a conversation about anything happening in the world (and we all know there are millions of things that affect people and involves politics).. And it’s just an average day. Going out with his friends (who likely share the same beliefs as him).
No, politics is not everything. But politics are more than just a bunch of people governing countries. Those are people trusted by other people to be representing our very personal values and making decisions that are potentially life altering, on a daily basis. Hell, many of them actually want to (and do) control women’s rights over giving birth. That’s actually politics actively affecting millions of people around the world.
Having an opinion is healthy, having a different opinion on some things is also healthy. What isn’t healthy is staying with someone that believes in people that don’t represent your values. That simply means you two don’t share the same values.
Hey OP, I’ve been in a similar situation. Basically my then bf (now husband) used to be married. But when he heard his ex got engaged he said he “felt weird about it” and I could tell it was making him upset. I was distraught bc I thought this meant he still had feelings for his ex. I asked him why it was upsetting and he had some vague answers like “it seems so sudden.” And when I asked if he still had feelings for her he absolutely denied any. Even though they still kept in touch with each other, he said that their friendship was very superficial and that she meant nothing to him. So I was super confused/hurt by the stark contrast about him being upset about his ex’s engagement and him saying he didn’t have feelings for her.
We continued to date and communicate about things, and I eventually learned that the reason why he was upset was bc his ex’s engagement seemed to him a symbol/reminder of everything he lost during his divorce. He missed his old house, he missed his dog, he missed the prospect of having kids… he missed a lot of things but he did not miss her as person lol. He was mourning his old life, not the person he had it with. He was super vague about why he was upset at first bc he didn’t really know how to communicate how he was feeling (and he prob couldn’t pinpoint why he felt that way either).
It seems like what happened with your gf was pretty recent, so please be gentle on yourself and with her. She probably is confused about her feelings and may have trouble communicating them. And her feelings likely have nothing to do with still being in love with him. You’ve been together a long while so if your relationship has been great so far, it’s not worth it to throw it away on something like this. Best of luck to you and your gf ❤️
You're not going to change long standing habits overnight or 3 months for that matter. Work on yourself and start recognizing your bad habits at a smaller level (before they become someone else's problem) and keep going to therapy to work through them. If just being friends is an option, and that goes for both of you, try that. Not friends with a chance to get back together, but friends in each moment, that's it. It sounds like you're working on your communication skills and that's as important as anything else, if you can't say “sorry, I'm in a bad headspace and I need to process X” then you're only going to run into this again and again. Hope this helps!
could she maybe have undiagnosed endo? or a yeast infection or bv? yeast and bv are not just from sex, some people get yeast after antibiotics, or if she put anything in after sex (ie toilet paper, to clean up inside) she might’ve gotten microtears on the vaginal wall that make it easier to get an infection. again BV or a yeast infection do NOT mean she is sleeping with anyone else, sometimes they just happen. but they can definitely cause pain during penetrative intercourse.
For sure, now is the time. I’m sure it’ll be for the best long run. Most good things are scary the first time. It’s normal to be scared about the future. If it’s the right person it’s not really a choice. I get that.