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Model from: de
Languages: de
Birth Date: 1990-06-24
Body Type: bodyTypeThin
Ethnicity: ethnicityWhite
Hair color: hairColorBlack
Eyes color: eyeColorBrown
Subculture: subcultureGamers
Date: October 9, 2022
I’m glad she gave the money back I was about to be super mad for you. I think she seems gold digger-ish. I can’t tell why she dumped you thought I’d need more context. I think that anybody who does that to you is not worth it. You deserve a true love where you both would die for each other and be a ride or die
Well if it's true it kind of depends on the truth and whether it's something you feel you can forgive. If it's not or it's something completely outrageous, then the only thing to do is break up and forget about him. You bring it up by doing your research first and then flat out stating that you happened upon a profile that looks exactly like the pictures he sends and has a similar name and other striking similarities, but is still far enough off from what he has told you to warrent some genuine worry and that you (may or may not have found some other things as well to back this up) and that you are willing to send him what you have and demand an explanation that isn't such astronomical bs pathological liars all over the world are looking up to the skies collectively in disbelief and it better happen now.
Oh I see. It's a simple yes thanks for the invite but I'm busy that day , problem solved.
My thing with LDRs is if you don't have a plan to someday be together in person indefinitely, then you're just both wasting your time.
Of course! I don't expect him to constantly talk to me, but just a sudden change in behavior worried me a bit is all. I might be overthinking things with this, but it's honestly more than just not talking much over the past couple of days that surfaced after some space.
Here’s my guidance: you should thank whatever god or gods you believe in that she hasn’t dumped your ass. You are the one making this transactional. Did I read your budget right that she pays for all of the groceries? How is that fair?
You also seem really full of yourself considering you got your degree live! from SNHU. Not exactly MIT. If you had gone to a better school, maybe you wouldn’t need to work for $14/hour in a field that should be highly in demand. And maybe you shouldn’t be talking shit on liberal arts majors.
phone buzzed, it was a message from his girlfriend, so I opened it (wrongly)
Yeah, don't be doing that (at least not unless the person who's phone it is quite explicitly tells you they're totally fine with you doing that).
“did she invite us both?” And she said no
Uhm, … the lying is an issue … but that's not exactly what you asked. But now you've also put yourself in the difficult position where you know only because you peeked where you shouldn't have.
asked her if she was sure and she's made it pretty adamant l'm not invited.
And she doubles down on the lie – yeah, that's an issue – but again not what you asked.
should I read into this or
Don't presume. Yes, she lied. That may or may not be because she doesn't want you there. Maybe she hates her brother's fiance and doesn't want to give her the privilege of having you present at her wedding. Dear knows why, but that's just one of many possible reasons she lied and told you you're not invited.
And … want to know? Well, how 'bout tell her you know you were invited, and how it is that you know that, and ask her why she told you you're not invited.
What do you think and how do I handle this?
You know your girlfriend way better than I do, so you should figure out how to best handle it, and what's best for your relationship, etc. … and how you may deal with the matter going forward too – as it may come up again. E.g. you see your girlfriend's brother and/or his fiance–>wife sometime after the wedding (or even their family), and one of them asks you why you didn't come to the wedding or remarks about your having been invited and not having come – you and your girlfriend ought be on the same page regarding that … but she lied to you, and you haven't told her you know that – so unless she cleans that up and tells you the truth, it may get a bit messy – or at least awkward – at best. In general, if she's lying to you, you really ought get that addressed and figured out … needn't be immediate, but if there's some general pattern/practice there, there may be significant issue(s) going on there with your girlfriend.
The dollar amount is irrelevant. If she loves this man she would be happy with anything. The fact she needs a ring of a certain price/size/quality means she is way too invested in appearances and what other people think.
The size of the ring is not for her. It’s for the people that she shows it to and wants to impress. Being married to someone who constantly needs you to do/be something so they can impress others is insufferable and will tear apart a relationship over time.