You can't fight for a relationship alone. Why be with someone who doesn't want to be with you? It sounds like it would be better anyway for you to deal with your trauma and issues first before getting into a relationship
She recommended the book Attached by Amir Levine when she first realized that I have an anxious attachment style. Also Hold me tight by Sue Johnson. At the time, I was in an unhealthy relationship so Attached really resonated with me. I ended that relationship and looked for a partner who is secure.
I also deal with cptsd and we focus more on that now that my relationship is more settled. We mostly use internal family systems (IFS) and I find that helpful even though it sounds pretty kooky.
Lol. It defines situations where women have told their partners they’re fed up, their needs aren’t being met, they want to go to therapy but husband thinks there is nothing wrong. Then the wife says she wants a divorce and husband is going “where is this coming from!”
Ehh hooters isnt touching, but personally, if my husband went to a strip club and got a nide lap dance, i wouldn't care and probably laugh it off. But, that's my relationship. If you guys trust each other, then this lap dance should be harmless. I think you're over thinking it. ?
He's a liar and a cheater! He's done it before and he will do it again!!
You can't fight for a relationship alone. Why be with someone who doesn't want to be with you? It sounds like it would be better anyway for you to deal with your trauma and issues first before getting into a relationship
What kind of reaction did he have?
She recommended the book Attached by Amir Levine when she first realized that I have an anxious attachment style. Also Hold me tight by Sue Johnson. At the time, I was in an unhealthy relationship so Attached really resonated with me. I ended that relationship and looked for a partner who is secure.
I also deal with cptsd and we focus more on that now that my relationship is more settled. We mostly use internal family systems (IFS) and I find that helpful even though it sounds pretty kooky.
You married a bucket of red flags. Chaos ensued. It’s what you should have expected.
He needs jail. Too bad it’s legal.
Lol. It defines situations where women have told their partners they’re fed up, their needs aren’t being met, they want to go to therapy but husband thinks there is nothing wrong. Then the wife says she wants a divorce and husband is going “where is this coming from!”
Ehh hooters isnt touching, but personally, if my husband went to a strip club and got a nide lap dance, i wouldn't care and probably laugh it off. But, that's my relationship. If you guys trust each other, then this lap dance should be harmless. I think you're over thinking it. ?