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Right!
I choose to believe her because i still trust her.
My mind always goes to all the possible scenarios, with everything…. So i understand now that i imagined a scenario that had the worst outcome and dwelled on it.
All good at the moment
As you want to work through his bs, let’s have a look at his reasons:
He said that when I decided to renew my lease this past month instead of moving closer to him he felt like it was a matter of time before I left him again.
Okay, I don’t blame him for the feeling. But did he voice it? Did he try to move closer to you instead? Nope. He decided to cheat. Very mature. Also are you sure he only started after you renewed your lease? Doubtful.
So he said did go on some dates and was talking to this girl as an “insurance” policy.
Again, see previous point. Is it cool that you broke up with him for those reasons? Maybe not. But at least you were honest and told him before and didn’t just cheat. And insurance policy? Lol. Even if it’s true and it was with your blessing he is a shitty human being as he would string the other girl around.
He apologized and said he does care for me, he does love me.
Blah blah sure sure sure typical excuses blah. He knew his actions would hurt you deeply and he did it anyway. Is this the action of someone how cares for you? And he is not sorry he did it, he is only sorry he got caught.
He said that he's looking to settle down at this point and have a family.
Is this something you want and he was hesitant? Then he is just dangling a carrot in front if you.
He said that marriage would absolutely be different and he would never do this.
Lol. Look at his previous reasons. Obviously he isn’t communicating. Even if we would believe his “reasons”: What if anything else happens again? He would totally revert back to cheating.
He did do this before when we dated the last time
So it’s not a one time thing but a pattern.
he wasn't sure if we were exclusive
Really? Was there really any doubt?
I get what he's saying about his fear of me breakiing up with him again but why wasn't that something he would have brought up to me?
Because his reason is bs. It’s a cheap excuse for cheating. Just like last time.
They've kissed but he said nothing more happened.
He says that. He is not a trustworthy source.
He said he'll end it with her and be fully exclusive to me
That is really the most enraging statement of all. Ending it with her is really not a great offer, I mean it’s not a war negotiation – in such a ceasefire would be a great step but that’s not it, it’s like getting caught stealing and you offer to let go of the stolen goods – no one will see this as a gesture of goodwill. And willing to go fully exclusive?!? Same. You were, he wasn’t. Ao what the offer here.
Just end it. He cheated twice. And blames it on you. The first 2 reasons he blames you. He is not a toddler he can communicate. He didn’t. Because it’s not about you. He cheated because he wanted to not because of anything you did. And remember: you caught him twice. But you don’t know how often he really cheated.
I can’t think of any way of resolving this in a way that won’t be damaging to you, and also damaging to your child. He has lied to you about who, in his heart, he actually is. And he’s lied to you very well and successfully. He would have never been honest with you if you hadn’t come across proof and confronted him.
He seems to have lost all sense of propriety in his sexual desires (if he ever had any). Are you absolutely certain your child would be safe with him?
You can’t be certain he’s never indulged in these fantasies. You should get tested for all STD’s. If you test positive for anything, the baby should be tested too.
She did not pursue this relationship, she initially said I was way too young the day we met. we eventually talked for quite a long time. She was against it for awhile. We talked and had similar bad childhoods and shared a lot based on that. It led to a relationship. She did nothing wrong and the age gap was acknowledged. We just wound up being together