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Date: November 1, 2022
Could be worse. I had to get a restraining order against my ex when we separated.
The story she's telling you doesn't really line up.
she was part of a three way relationship with a male and a female. Supposedly it was just a sex thing.
double date with the other two from her thruple just so they could chat
she was just gonna go talk and catch up
the plan changed to their house
That's a lot of 'just chatting' for 'just a sex thing'. The house was only the ever 'true' plan.
She's been lying to you constantly.
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Leave him.
Whatever issues he has- and I am not dismissing them just summarizing them all by saying “issues”- he had them before you got married, so getting married shouldn't have suddenly made him unable to work, unable to have sex, and unable to function as a partner.
So, he either figures you are stuck with him now and is showing his true self, or something happened that caused him to backslide/slide in to this new person. Either way, you should leave.
Leave now before you are the financial hook to support him. Leave now before he drains you of more money and time.
And, if he is truly in crisis, then leaving is also a good idea. He is unwilling to get help and so not having you as a safety net may be the motivation he needs to get help. My sister was married to a man who wasn't great on his best days, but after they had a kid he just stopped working and stopped trying. He created some health problems for himself and then of course was depressed because he wasn't doing good. She finally worked up the courage to leave him, and you know what? He moved in with his parents who could be around for him more- my sister had to work and be the sole child care- and the shock of having to leave helped him go to the doctor's, get a job, and start to resemble an adult again.
Your husband is stuck, and you don't need to be stuck too.
The risk is that in 5 to 10 years he will trade you in for a younger model.
You literally made my point for me. Disney movies are fiction… because they’re not real.
And neither was that perfection.
We see this all the time here on this sub. It’s a very common pattern. Hot truth: No relationship is perfect.
The best relationships are resilient precisely because they develop healthy ways to deal with the conflict that occurs – not because they are free of conflict. You will learn as you grow and gain experience that this is the pinnacle of what two humans can achieve in a relationship, not a complete absence of visible conflict, which really just means that the conflict hasn’t manifested itself yet.
She should have told him she was going to pick up her stuff. Instead of assuming she has enough credit to her name that would allow him to trust her
This could be a cheats way out but to soften the blow I would go for something like ‘right I’ve got a lot of work coming up so I’m off grid for the foreseeable and won’t be responding to any messages. If you need to talk I’m sure the xxx group we’re on will help’ And blow away that way.
in his head, he makes compromise to accomodate your feelings. obviously he is wrong.
he is into you, and not as friend. So either, you give it a try or you explicitly tell him you are not into him and will never date him (but still accept him as a friend if he behave like one).
he would have regrets to not have try to date you. but if the point is set, he can probably stay as friend and look for another love interest after a period of grievance. or he can feel rejected and go away to not stay in your vicinity.
whatever the case, you want your common relation to change. giving him the talk will change it, for good or bad.
Not blocking her is only going to make shit worse for you. Gotta remove anything of her from your life so you can start to move on. You’re young, you’ll find someone else, but you gotta move on first and work on yourself
You're her type in bed but not in a relationship. That's normal and valid. You don't have to say yes, but I don't think she's necessarily wrong for asking. Just do what you're comfortable with.