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Room for online sex video chat Isis08_02
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Birth Date: 1989-08-02
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Date: October 17, 2022
He is being abusive. Please seek help; it is so hot to recognize when you’re in the situation. It’s no surprise that your libido is low; he is killing it. I also wouldn’t be surprised if your mental health issues are because of him as well.
My parents are the fucking same. My dad is the pickiest mf on earth. If we (my mom and I) get him a gift, ANY fucking gift, he complains or says “oh….thank you!” In a way that's clearly fake.
He has NEVER put the effort in to even try to spare out feelings (and we arent shitty gift givers. This year we got him a fucking oculus 2, and he spent like a full minute squinting at the box before saying something like “why did it come with resident evil? I don't play those games.”)
Every single fucking year, christmas is sad. Because he gets my mom gifts that HE likes and acts like a toddler when his shirts are a type he hasn't worn before. Every year there is a fight. Every year we all end up miserable and disappointed because he made a big stink about the fucking gifts.
Is that what you want every Christmas? Because unless he realizes what he did was rude and apologizes, that's what your future looks like, whether or not you have kids.
Also, he used your debit card to get your gift????? Fuck him! That's not even a gift!
Honestly if he hates cats and doesn't like your cat, then you're in for a rocky relationship regardless of how you feel. The guy for one needs to control his damn emotions. I'm not a fan of cats, but if a cat jumped in my legs I'm not throwing the cat off like he did, i would simply just push the cat off.
You however also do share blame, did you really need to resort to throwing stuff? While I do think your mom is going extreme with filing a charge, you are still in the wrong for also reacting in a bad way.
I would be more inclined to suggest that you may want to re-evaluate if this will work long term. He seems to really not like your cat and you aren't going to give your cat up, so you're in a dilemma on which one means more to you
Nothing external is going to help with her depression, outside of medical attention. You won't ever be able to create a safe/nurturing enough space for her to want to make a change on her own. And she needs to want to make a change on her own.
Unpopular opinion here. If he really does treat you well, I think he deserves a shot at being your boyfriend. Discuss this with friends and family and see what they have to say. Those are the people who know you best and can you give you the most solid advice. The internet is going to just assume he's a shallow asshole based on very little information, when he might truly have your best interests at heart.
If your unhappy with your weight you probably want to shed some lbs for yourself anyway. If he was asking you to quit doing naked drugs, or smoking cigarettes, or many other things that have a negative effect on your health he wouldn't be villified this way. Do you want a man who can be honest with you even when it might be hard to do so? This man has demonstrated that he can be, which is something I personally value a lot in my close relationships and not all men are capable of.
What do you value in a partner? Does he have those qualities? What requirements do you have for him to be your boyfriend? If you asked him to start eating healthier and exercise with you, would he? How does he plan to support you with your weight loss goals?
From your post it sounds like you two have deep feelings for each other and you've spent a year developing a close bond. Do you want to throw that all away just because he wants you to do something you've admitted you'd like to do for yourself anyway? Yesterday on Reddit there was at least two posts coming from guys whose gfs gained a ton of weight and they were no longer attracted to them but still loved them asking how to handle the situation. That doesn't make those men assholes. You cannot control attraction, it can not be forced.
If I had a guy who I loved that loved me back and always made me feel loved and accepted I wouldn't end it cause he had the balls to tell me an uncomfotable truth. This sub is full of posts about cheating, lying, abuse, substance abuse, financial problems, sexual problems etc. Those would be dealbreakers for me. No guy or relationship is going to be perfect. That doesn't mean settle for less than you deserve, just be realistic. It's ultimately up to you if this is a dealbreaker. Talk to the people who love you about it and figure out if this guy is right for you or not. If he treats you like shit and you left that out of your post, he might actually be an asshole.
“Barley (barely) anybody her age is doing what she’s doing…”
but so many people your age you doing it. I understand living at home and all it’s luxuries. Wouldn’t we all love to have our parents pay for everything for us but at some point you gotta take responsibility for you life. You can’t expect people to take care of you forever.
You are who you hang out with so maybe take that into consideration.
It’s so highly impressive that your GF is doing it at such a young age. I feel like she’s super ambitious and deserves an ambitious partner.
This is very weird, especially if they haven’t talked in years. It seems obsessive in my opinion. I think it’s disrespectful and creepy towards his ex and you that he holds onto these things. I can understand MAYBE keeping them in a keepsake box somewhere at most. I’m not gonna assume malicious intent with this limited information, but there’s a complete lack of boundaries on his end that’s unfortunately affecting you. I definitely would NOT chalk this up to anxiety. I think anyone would be weirded out by this and you have every right to be skeptical.