My partner and I are both professionals and we have a clear understanding that on business trips there is no justifiable reason to visit an opposite-sex colleague in their hotel room, or to have an opposite-sex colleague in our own room. No justifiable reason at all.
If you're getting married, I guarantee this won't be the last difficult conversation you'll have to have. Embrace it as practice.
Are you upset because you want a ring? Do you worry that he maybe wasn't serious about proposing? Something else? Once you figure out what's actually bothering you, you can have a productive conversation.
Sit down sometime and let him know you'd like to talk in more detail about the engagement and wedding. Lay out your concerns, in a non-accusatory way. Be honest, and listen to what he says.
My partner and I are both professionals and we have a clear understanding that on business trips there is no justifiable reason to visit an opposite-sex colleague in their hotel room, or to have an opposite-sex colleague in our own room. No justifiable reason at all.
If you're getting married, I guarantee this won't be the last difficult conversation you'll have to have. Embrace it as practice.
Are you upset because you want a ring? Do you worry that he maybe wasn't serious about proposing? Something else? Once you figure out what's actually bothering you, you can have a productive conversation.
Sit down sometime and let him know you'd like to talk in more detail about the engagement and wedding. Lay out your concerns, in a non-accusatory way. Be honest, and listen to what he says.