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She is into him. And let’s assume he’s innocent and truly big brotherly (he’s not. He likes the attention I promise he’s not an idiot), BUT by not having boundaries he is hurting her. She won’t move on, she won’t form healthy relationships with people her own age and there will come a point where she thinks she finally has her chance. She will forever confuse friendship and “big brother” touted relationships with being “in love”. The boundaries he needs to place aren’t for you (although he should for you anyway) but they will protect Darcy. And him, in the event she finally snaps and finds herself obsessing. Whether he meant to it not, he set her up for this.
Tell her. But be kind to his poor girlfriend, she will be hurt. It's heavy to hear such devastating news. I'm sorry for both you and his girlfriend that you had/have to deal with this fucker.
Unlikely.. I am looking at my pregnancy apps here to do the math for you, I conceived around May 16, so 8 weeks earlier if you are really sure about sleeping with her July 10. On November 1st I was 26 weeks along so your baby momma would have been 18 weeks when she gave birth. That is impossible for a baby to survive. I think the record is 21 weeks, but 18? No. Not a chance. Doctors won’t even revive a baby that small. It’s not even classified a stillbirth before 20 weeks, it would be called a late miscarriage. Either you have it mixed up and slept with her at least two months earlier, or she is lying to you and the baby is not yours, or there simply is no living baby, orrrr you are making up a story for karma.
Because it's already very long ? In short my question was just if people think it's “manipulating” a partner if you don't compromise on your beliefs of what a relationship should be even tho you told them right frim the start.
You cannot make someone see reason when they are determined to be unreasonable. You made an effort to include your girlfriend and it wasn’t good enough for her. It sounds like you spent a lot of time trying to placate her when she was the one acting out, which you should not do as it sets a dangerous precedent.
The “damned if I do, damned if I don’t” mindset is a dangerous one that will lead to a lot of arguments and resentment.
If meeting your friends was really a priority to her, she would have rescheduled her plans considering her friend was going to be around longer than yours. Sounds like she wanted to do her thing and just have you sit at home since she couldn’t/wouldn’t join? How is that fair on you and your friends? It also didn’t seem to become a bigger issue until she found out the other girlfriend was around. Is she always so insecure?
The only thing you can do is communicate. If she refuses to own up to her part of the conversation or any miscommunication, there is nothing you can do. You can’t MAKE her see reason, but you CAN respect yourself and remove yourself from the equation.
Relationships cannot work without proper communication and it sounds like it’s a “she’s always right” sort of scenario, which is not healthy for a partnership.
So if you had a guy, married, offering you a place to crash and you got a guy who isn't married offering you a bigger bed you choose the guy with the bigger bed? Honestly the only thing you did wrong was choose the wrong place to go back to.
And I'd I misread that and mister married was the guy getting all fresh with you there is a much bigger conversation to be had.
Regardless Op you dun goofed and if you don't tell your boyfriend is going to snowball out of control. He might be a bit unhappy and want to break up. He might also understand and try offering you suggestions to help not have it happen again. One way or another you gotta tell him and take whatever metaphorical limps you will here. Sorry you were played like that, but if I were your boyfriend I would be very skeptical about your story.
What do you want to bring up, that he thought someone was hot a year before knowing you? Repeat that statement, doesn't that sound a bit crazy? I can recall quite a few people I found hard before my wife.. I dated other people before my wife. Hell I can recall people I thought were hot last week.
It's a story, removing a catheter is a big bummer, having it done by a woman, especially an attractive woman, adds to that discomfort. That's an interesting story I would listen to at a party. Not even my wife would be offended, unless I tossed in 'and we were stuffin the muffin in the bathroom soon after'. Better story, but not suitable if your partner is near by.
Honestly, in my opinion, it's not worth bringing up at all. Going to drive yourself crazy if that bothers you, because unless he lives in a closet, he'll see quite a few 'hot' women from time to time.
Yes you need to tell her. Wouldn’t you want for know? He’s a manipulative POS and she needs to know to stop wasting her time. Not only that, but he could seriously jeopardize her health with STD. He’s a repulsive human being who doesn’t care about anyone but himself. If you want to do it anonymously then do that. But you have no obligation to him to keep his secrets.
She is into him. And let’s assume he’s innocent and truly big brotherly (he’s not. He likes the attention I promise he’s not an idiot), BUT by not having boundaries he is hurting her. She won’t move on, she won’t form healthy relationships with people her own age and there will come a point where she thinks she finally has her chance. She will forever confuse friendship and “big brother” touted relationships with being “in love”. The boundaries he needs to place aren’t for you (although he should for you anyway) but they will protect Darcy. And him, in the event she finally snaps and finds herself obsessing. Whether he meant to it not, he set her up for this.
Tell her. But be kind to his poor girlfriend, she will be hurt. It's heavy to hear such devastating news. I'm sorry for both you and his girlfriend that you had/have to deal with this fucker.
Unlikely.. I am looking at my pregnancy apps here to do the math for you, I conceived around May 16, so 8 weeks earlier if you are really sure about sleeping with her July 10. On November 1st I was 26 weeks along so your baby momma would have been 18 weeks when she gave birth. That is impossible for a baby to survive. I think the record is 21 weeks, but 18? No. Not a chance. Doctors won’t even revive a baby that small. It’s not even classified a stillbirth before 20 weeks, it would be called a late miscarriage. Either you have it mixed up and slept with her at least two months earlier, or she is lying to you and the baby is not yours, or there simply is no living baby, orrrr you are making up a story for karma.
Because it's already very long ? In short my question was just if people think it's “manipulating” a partner if you don't compromise on your beliefs of what a relationship should be even tho you told them right frim the start.
You cannot make someone see reason when they are determined to be unreasonable. You made an effort to include your girlfriend and it wasn’t good enough for her. It sounds like you spent a lot of time trying to placate her when she was the one acting out, which you should not do as it sets a dangerous precedent.
The “damned if I do, damned if I don’t” mindset is a dangerous one that will lead to a lot of arguments and resentment.
If meeting your friends was really a priority to her, she would have rescheduled her plans considering her friend was going to be around longer than yours. Sounds like she wanted to do her thing and just have you sit at home since she couldn’t/wouldn’t join? How is that fair on you and your friends? It also didn’t seem to become a bigger issue until she found out the other girlfriend was around. Is she always so insecure?
The only thing you can do is communicate. If she refuses to own up to her part of the conversation or any miscommunication, there is nothing you can do. You can’t MAKE her see reason, but you CAN respect yourself and remove yourself from the equation.
Relationships cannot work without proper communication and it sounds like it’s a “she’s always right” sort of scenario, which is not healthy for a partnership.
Does your wife always try to be the bigger victim? Sounds very manipulative.
Getting upset because you didn’t accept her apology is wrong. End of story.
So if you had a guy, married, offering you a place to crash and you got a guy who isn't married offering you a bigger bed you choose the guy with the bigger bed? Honestly the only thing you did wrong was choose the wrong place to go back to.
And I'd I misread that and mister married was the guy getting all fresh with you there is a much bigger conversation to be had.
Regardless Op you dun goofed and if you don't tell your boyfriend is going to snowball out of control. He might be a bit unhappy and want to break up. He might also understand and try offering you suggestions to help not have it happen again. One way or another you gotta tell him and take whatever metaphorical limps you will here. Sorry you were played like that, but if I were your boyfriend I would be very skeptical about your story.
Why are you still with someone like that?
We aren’t.
What do you want to bring up, that he thought someone was hot a year before knowing you? Repeat that statement, doesn't that sound a bit crazy? I can recall quite a few people I found hard before my wife.. I dated other people before my wife. Hell I can recall people I thought were hot last week.
It's a story, removing a catheter is a big bummer, having it done by a woman, especially an attractive woman, adds to that discomfort. That's an interesting story I would listen to at a party. Not even my wife would be offended, unless I tossed in 'and we were stuffin the muffin in the bathroom soon after'. Better story, but not suitable if your partner is near by.
Honestly, in my opinion, it's not worth bringing up at all. Going to drive yourself crazy if that bothers you, because unless he lives in a closet, he'll see quite a few 'hot' women from time to time.
Not sitting right with you??? Repeat these words to yourself: “My husband threatened me with a knife.”
You are under-reacting OP! Separate. Restraining order. This is light years beyond 'annoying'.
Yes you need to tell her. Wouldn’t you want for know? He’s a manipulative POS and she needs to know to stop wasting her time. Not only that, but he could seriously jeopardize her health with STD. He’s a repulsive human being who doesn’t care about anyone but himself. If you want to do it anonymously then do that. But you have no obligation to him to keep his secrets.