Yeah, and here’s the thing. I have a new colleague (F35) who is getting way more attention now, so I think it will blow over eventually. I think they’re just joking around and don’t actually want to stick their ducks in our exhaust ports.
I know some event organizers deal with no-shows by charging a security deposit that will be returned to the guest when they arrive in person or cancel before the deadline. But it's probably really tacky to do for non-professional events like weddings and birthday parties.
Have you tried talking with him about these behaviors? The singing is whatever, but the farting and the random dick appearances are both rude, and you have grounds to ask him to try and change those behaviors. If you’ve tried and he’s refused, or said he would stop and did not, then you might have bigger problems than boorishness.
Leave him be..
This is unbelievably disrespectful!
Yeah, and here’s the thing. I have a new colleague (F35) who is getting way more attention now, so I think it will blow over eventually. I think they’re just joking around and don’t actually want to stick their ducks in our exhaust ports.
I’m dating him is that bad
I know some event organizers deal with no-shows by charging a security deposit that will be returned to the guest when they arrive in person or cancel before the deadline. But it's probably really tacky to do for non-professional events like weddings and birthday parties.
Have you tried talking with him about these behaviors? The singing is whatever, but the farting and the random dick appearances are both rude, and you have grounds to ask him to try and change those behaviors. If you’ve tried and he’s refused, or said he would stop and did not, then you might have bigger problems than boorishness.