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Room for live sex video chat Jane_1
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Birth Date: 2003-12-08
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Date: December 13, 2022
You are what is called the practice girl
You broke up with her via text ? Ouch ! Yes give her a reason why. It’s way harder to move on with no closure or reason imo
No, it's not in general impossible, but meeting a person first and get laid later is less likely to end in lying hot next to a complete asshole. I'd strongly recommend to not shed one tear after this idiot and instead ban him from your life. All the redflags have been explained. He doesn't see you (or probably any woman) as a person, but only as a tool for his needs.
Don't beat yourself up for having had sex with him, if it was good, congratulations, but now move on and don't make yourself a fallback option for this sad excuse of a man.
My real advice is what should be sorts obvious. You gotta level with A. It's about mutual respect. Gotta try and help her understand that sometimes romantic relationships end. That does not mean that people need to remain bitter enemies. Your mutual experience of becoming a better version of yourselves throughout your college experience should be a bond, something to celebrate for each other, as you two were at one point close to each other. A support system if you will. While the support system has changed since the ending of the relationship, that does not mean you cannot still be supportive to the others new goals in life.
It's a mindset and therefore an active choice to think these thoughts over other, less helpful, intrusive thoughts. Good luck. Imo it's a really great feeling to be able to clear the air with an ex and know they aren't an enemy going forward in life. I hope you can experience that too
It’s definitely enough when you say you want to work on the relationship & she says @what relationship?”
I’m not sure why you already online together, but you do. It sounds like she moved in with you? When you return, you need to break up & give her a deadline to get out.
No, you should run, you don't joke about stuff like this. Run as far away as you can, dude's a rapist.
You say you want to save the relationship, but what you actually want is for him to behave the way you want him to behave.
The two of you are stuck in a pattern where the more that you try to control his behavior, the more he will resist. There is nothing you will be able to do to change his behavior directly. The one thing you can do is get therapy for yourself in order to stop being so controlling.
From a psychological perspective, you are getting frustrated every time he complains because you think that indicates that you are somehow a failure and need to do something about the problem. You don't need to “do” anything. That's the classic “fix it approach:” one person is tries to talk about their feelings and the other wants to solve it, as if having feelings is a problem.
The way to “solve the problem” is to let your boyfriend share how he feels without any judgement (about him or yourself) and without the urge to do anything. But it doesn't look like you are currently capable of doing that because of your own psychological issues. It's not just about listening: you have to do listen from a place of complete acceptance and compassion. Can you do that? Would you be able to listen to your boyfriend complain without the urge to groan internally and wish that he would grow up?
In short, if you want to save the relationship: **Treat your boyfriend like an adult and let him deal with any natural consequences of his actions. *Completely let go of your desire to control his actions, or for him to act the way you think he should. **Learn how to unconditionally accept and love your boyfriend as he currently is, instead of you “loving” him only when he acts the way you want him to.
Okay. I am exhausting but I’d rather be exhausting than rude like you
Nope. No need to tell him. Men will occasionally flirt with you, and women will occasionally flirt with him; that's just human nature. It's up to both of you to handle those situations properly and make it clear that you are unavailable. But telling your partner about such things tends to lead to feelings of jealousy or inadequacy, all for no gain.
So your friends knew something was going on but didn't tell you? Great they are supporting you now, but their earlier silence is disappointing