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Date: October 11, 2022
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I know you're hurt but closing yourself off to future friendships is not a good long term solution. You can grieve the loss of your friends, it hurts like a breakup and that's normal. Use this as an opportunity to reflect on what you would want in a future friend, and focus on quality of friends vs quantity. Also think about what you bring to the table, friendship wise. Strive to embody the same characteristics you would value in a loyal friend. I know a lot of “friends” I had in high school were just people I hung out with because they lived close and we saw each other 5-6x a week for hours at a time. It hurt when we stopped being friends, either drifting apart or from hurtful behavior on someone's part, but we weren't meant to be lifelong friends anyway. My adult friendships have been a lot healthier (I'm 31 btw) but they have required more effort to maintain.
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My mom swabbed my nieces mouth in the bathroom without notifying my brother’s girlfriend about a DNA test. Your boyfriend’s ex was putting bullshit into his head. Have to do what you have to do sometimes for some peace of mind.
Sounds like a bacterial infection, she needs to visit the doctor
That's very supporting and helpful, such an angel on earth
I can't see the comments?
Ya again I’m not really talking about that. When, precisely, will you have your savings replenished?
This is definitely OP trying to lend credit to his own lie about where the hickey came from. So he can show his girlfriend, “Look, see? I even posted on Reddit about it to get advice! Why would I lie on Reddit? Look, they think it's weird too!”
Why not? We're both close and hang out with each other more than any other people. Neither of us has a lot of friends. She would have me over to her apartment with her fiance and his friends to play on the Xbox and stuff.
Lots to unpack here. Speaking as a guy, the boyfriend sounds like he's just responding to things as oppose to being proactive about things. I'd let him know where you're at and that you need more of x,y, and z. Be specific with where your expectations are. And I mean very specific, because when you're an average guy, you're dealing with super average things all the time and need a road map.
In regards to the friend, I wouldn't base any expectations of any relationship off that guy. He's your grade-A typical “nice guy” and will say/do/whatever to be in your stratosphere. Those guys will leave their mother dying in a hospital bed to bring you flowers. They aren't normal.
Give your guy a chance by letting him come to the light with some instruction. I was a basket case at 27 and had a lot of my priorities out of whack because a lot of my girlfriends would tip-toe their wants and desires until a break-up, when it was like, you didn't do x or y, and I felt blindsided. I'm older now and have had a lot of x and y expectations, so now I can see it on the horizon, but back then… a lot of confusion. Hope this helps.
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I hope i don't burn in enternal hell for it!
Friends don't pull this shit on each other. Does she even do anything for you, or are you the one making all the sacrifices in the friendship?
Your soon to be wife deserves way better. The more I read your comments, the more I think you enjoy the fact they hate your wife and ostracize her from your little social group. Wonder if it makes you feel like you are better than her or something? If you are not a troll, and all of this is real and you have let it continue and kept these people in your life, you suck. You do not deserve your wife. Either step up and kick these people to the curb right now, or tell your soon to be wife that she deserves better and encourage her to find someone who will treat her right. I hope she sees all these comments of people telling her she deserves better than you and gets the idea that she needs to leave this situation.
I agree. He sounds like a spoiled brat. He just complains about her weight . No other issues to why he doesn't want to marry. Dad has every right to not cont pay his degree
Thank you for the advice. I want to stop caring but I don’t know how
Moving in together is not a difficult topic. Approach it like, “I think we should make a plan to on-line together”, and then look at what circumstances need to be in place for this to work. That way, it shows you are open to problem solving and hearing her opinion, while not necessarily putting pressure on her if she wanted to get a couple goals done first.
Your issue is that if she says no, this relationship is practically over. You are in your 30's now, can't waste each other's time. After 2 years, if she has no idea whether you might be a potential life partner, then the issue is not whether or not you online together. You have bigger problems together that would have come to the surface eventually.
I'll keep that in mind. She is my first and I really like her. So what's the next move I should do?