I'm sorry this happened and your trust was broken. However, it was only a kiss and she feels guilty and told you about it. Take this as a sign that she has regret and wants to move past this and earn your trust back
Former swimmer here and state champ for breaststroke (go away with the jokes, heard them all). Also, a dude.
There is no way your husband doesn’t know how beneficial swimming is as opposed to impact exercise. If a person wants to get trim, lean and fit without tearing your body down, swimming is where it’s at.
You said he doesn’t want other guys to see you without him. I highly doubt he thinks guys seeing you in a swimsuit is any better and by his response, he seems to think swimming is a waste of money.
The truth here is what others have pointed out: you married a red flag of jealousy and apparently one who thinks he can control you. Im guessing this has shown up more than with just this.
So, you tell him that it’s probably best that he finds a different workout partner as you have different goals for working out (as well as different limitations). Or, just say “fuck off I’m swimming. You do whatever you want to”.
Im a married guy and couldn’t imagine saying what he did to you to my wife. I don’t own her and he doesn’t own you. He has a hard lesson to learn if he thinks jealousy does anything to stop anyone from looking at you or you at other people at the least.
You deserve to have a life outside of your relationship. Your partner's struggles are his to work through and shouldn't mean that you'd need to restrict yourself from doing what you want to do.
99% if the time & space means it's time to move on.
I'm sorry this happened and your trust was broken. However, it was only a kiss and she feels guilty and told you about it. Take this as a sign that she has regret and wants to move past this and earn your trust back
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Former swimmer here and state champ for breaststroke (go away with the jokes, heard them all). Also, a dude.
There is no way your husband doesn’t know how beneficial swimming is as opposed to impact exercise. If a person wants to get trim, lean and fit without tearing your body down, swimming is where it’s at.
You said he doesn’t want other guys to see you without him. I highly doubt he thinks guys seeing you in a swimsuit is any better and by his response, he seems to think swimming is a waste of money.
The truth here is what others have pointed out: you married a red flag of jealousy and apparently one who thinks he can control you. Im guessing this has shown up more than with just this.
So, you tell him that it’s probably best that he finds a different workout partner as you have different goals for working out (as well as different limitations). Or, just say “fuck off I’m swimming. You do whatever you want to”.
Im a married guy and couldn’t imagine saying what he did to you to my wife. I don’t own her and he doesn’t own you. He has a hard lesson to learn if he thinks jealousy does anything to stop anyone from looking at you or you at other people at the least.
You deserve to have a life outside of your relationship. Your partner's struggles are his to work through and shouldn't mean that you'd need to restrict yourself from doing what you want to do.
Buy a cheaper house omg
Lmao yeah especially when she hasn’t said anything. Come here for advice, not validation.