You clearly don’t trust her and if you have problem with it talk to her not the internet. Should she respect your boundaries, absolutely but I don’t blame her for staying where she was as long as they didn’t do anything together
One of you will have to compromise eventually and it’s not going to work out in the long term. One of you would definitely struggle with dissatisfaction that will eventually lead to resentment
You read it again, because what she wrote was that it happens sometimes, not much and that he picks up an extra shift after about half the time.
After learning more, I agree he can work more but he's still supporting het so she can't complain really.
They should solve this as a team and all the idiots calling him lazy and telling her to break up should STFU. She's still getting a good deal, although I get it's frustrating.
I know a woman whose abusive boyfriend got her pregnant and threatened to kill her if she tried to get an abortion ? I know it's an extreme situation but it does happen
Stay away from that friend. This will destroy your marriage faster than anything. If you do truly love your wife you will not go there. She will pretend not to know that you are fucking your friend while this woman smirks and rubs your wife's nose in the fact that she is taking her man. That is NOT within your wife's guidelines!
However It's pretty obvious you want this friend since you've already discussed it with her. Do the right thing and leave your poor wife, the love is gone.
I mean that’s the perfect ideal case but it’s highly more likely that she’s just ignoring smaller things that she could help out with knowing that he will do it when she’s out.
For example, she gets home, eats dinner, where is her dishes goes? She probably drops it in the sink and he washes it lol
Unless she never eats at home too, or do her own laundry, etc , etc. the latter is just so much more likely than the former in this example
Good luck. I hope he didn’t, but be ready to face the possibility that he did and in turn break up with him because of it.
Better hoodies than scalps.
You clearly don’t trust her and if you have problem with it talk to her not the internet. Should she respect your boundaries, absolutely but I don’t blame her for staying where she was as long as they didn’t do anything together
One of you will have to compromise eventually and it’s not going to work out in the long term. One of you would definitely struggle with dissatisfaction that will eventually lead to resentment
You read it again, because what she wrote was that it happens sometimes, not much and that he picks up an extra shift after about half the time.
After learning more, I agree he can work more but he's still supporting het so she can't complain really.
They should solve this as a team and all the idiots calling him lazy and telling her to break up should STFU. She's still getting a good deal, although I get it's frustrating.
I know a woman whose abusive boyfriend got her pregnant and threatened to kill her if she tried to get an abortion ? I know it's an extreme situation but it does happen
Stay away from that friend. This will destroy your marriage faster than anything. If you do truly love your wife you will not go there. She will pretend not to know that you are fucking your friend while this woman smirks and rubs your wife's nose in the fact that she is taking her man. That is NOT within your wife's guidelines!
However It's pretty obvious you want this friend since you've already discussed it with her. Do the right thing and leave your poor wife, the love is gone.
I mean that’s the perfect ideal case but it’s highly more likely that she’s just ignoring smaller things that she could help out with knowing that he will do it when she’s out.
For example, she gets home, eats dinner, where is her dishes goes? She probably drops it in the sink and he washes it lol
Unless she never eats at home too, or do her own laundry, etc , etc. the latter is just so much more likely than the former in this example