Dad really thinks he’s enough of a prize to outweigh his mistress-wife’s unhinged shittiness when he’s just another cheating homewrecker who followed his dick to greener pastures.
Why? Have a discussion with her and let her know how you feel. She may ask you to come along. She may tell you to fuck off (I really doubt it). She may change. But I guarantee nothing different will occur if you don’t talk to her about how this makes you feel.
But hey, if you and other posters here actually communicated with your partners, there wouldn’t be any stories to bring up on Reddit.
What part of 'not willing to risk it' do you not understand?
It's not a negotiation. OP is asking how best to phrase his firm no.
He’s a grown ass adult. He’s not “forgetting” to be gentle. This is deliberate and you don’t have to tolerate it.
Why don’t YOU divorce him? 2. Why don’t you just ask him outright if those two children are his as a result of an affair? Why the vague questioning?
Dad really thinks he’s enough of a prize to outweigh his mistress-wife’s unhinged shittiness when he’s just another cheating homewrecker who followed his dick to greener pastures.
Why? Have a discussion with her and let her know how you feel. She may ask you to come along. She may tell you to fuck off (I really doubt it). She may change. But I guarantee nothing different will occur if you don’t talk to her about how this makes you feel.
But hey, if you and other posters here actually communicated with your partners, there wouldn’t be any stories to bring up on Reddit.