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Room for live sex video chat Katy_Noelle
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Date: October 15, 2022
your mental health is more important than a chump
Life is tough enough, you don't need this Ahole to put you down. Unload the dead weight.
From what I read, the wife has acted exemplary. When she realized she had feelings, she stopped interacting with him, applied for a transfer, is going to counseling, working on her marriage, doing what it takes to preserve her marriage. I dont get the feeling she crossed any boundaries, (feel free to correct me if I am wrong).
It feels to me like OP is having a tantrum. How dare she develop feelings for someone she works intensely with. She is supposed to stay as in love with me as when we got married. Its better if it doesnt happen, but over 50-60 years, people change. You just work to keep your marriage going, which is what it seems like she is doing.
! Remind me 13 weeks
Right? From shitty dive bars to high end steak houses, any place I've worked in my career would immediately kick that person out. At least I think, as even the most demanding assholes I've waited on were self aware enough to not even attempt it. I cannot believe this girl has made it through life with so few black eyes.
So you cheated…and now you think your HUSBAND has violated your marriage…by looking at pictures?
Please divorce this guy so he can find someone who isn't a complete narcissist. My god.
depends on the situation, but I'd probably use a “white lie” – like “The guest list is already set” or “that'd have to be up to the host. I'll ask them if you want me to.”
You’re right and I’ve taken steps to better myself not only for me but especially for them. I’ve been going to therapy and I’ve suggested couples counseling to them to work on our communication issues. We’ve just hit an impasse where they refuse counseling. I don’t know what else I can do. I would love to fix our marriage and have a long happy life together, but I am tired of suggesting solutions just to have them rejected. If there is anything else you think we can do, please let me know. Thank you.
Yeah I’ve been conflicted about trying to give her everything she needs to feel ok but also have boundaries to keep myself functioning. I think you’re right, it just takes a kind brevity. Thank you
Ah yes, another one of the cryptic threads.
A lot of people probably have this kind of a difference in opinion about something. The main issue is not whether you have it at all or not, but is it about something like how one should eat their cereal, or is it about something like whether you should baptise your children or not. If it's something major then yes that is potentially a huge problem that you can't reconcile.
Facts
He’s stringing you both along and has zero respect for you. My fiancé would never share a bed with another girl or have a girl around like that. That’s just completely unacceptable on so many levels.
You're desperately grasping at straws here. There is a reason she broke up with you. People dont just blow up a long-term relationship over nothing.She's definitely shady. I bet anything that if you take her back, she'll fuck you over worse in the future.
It’s not remotely unbelievable…
? Selfish lover
? Continues immature behaviour you have talked to him about stopping
? Doesn't make you feel loved or special
? Compliments others but not you
… and I probably missed some here. Seriously the biggest one is the selfish lover flag. Get yourself moving on and moving on up. You can do better. Sunken cost fallacy is a real thing and this will not get better in time. You will just be more annoyed you didn't leave earlier.
Who cares what your ex thinks. If you are single the only person you need to worry about is yourself.
Just don't be the guy to use people's emotions to get what you want.