I'm concerned about how well you really know this guy if you've only been living together for 5 months. That's the sort of timescale where people can hide their true nature. I know you've been together longer but I've noticed that to many people that can mean for example seeing each other once a week, which isn't enough to know anybody properly.
Don't take on a “project” as a relationship. You're more than likely just delaying the inevitable. He WILL do it again. It WILL get worse. What are you going to do when you go to events like birthday parties or weddings or nightclubs and he's acting like an asshole towards you? I've been there and let me tell you it's not pleasant. And they can always make promises about not drinking and trying to change but OOPS just had a few drinks and you're back to square one. It's much harder to get doctors to take these issues seriously as they are not constantly drinking.
Wtf, call the fking cops and get away from that crazy bitch. Fking emotional abuse too, telling you she'll harm herself if you leave. Call the cops. Call whoever you know from her family and let them know about the crazy shit she's doing and has told you. Let them deal with it.
I might agree, but he's still very young. He could be committed to her and just be uncomfortable with the idea of marriage.
For what it's worth, I felt similarly when I was his age (not liking the very concept of having the government involved in my very personal business). But you grow up and you learn that marriage offers legal rights and protections, and your priorities change.
no this is not just how it is
this is a massive red flag
I'm concerned about how well you really know this guy if you've only been living together for 5 months. That's the sort of timescale where people can hide their true nature. I know you've been together longer but I've noticed that to many people that can mean for example seeing each other once a week, which isn't enough to know anybody properly.
Don't take on a “project” as a relationship. You're more than likely just delaying the inevitable. He WILL do it again. It WILL get worse. What are you going to do when you go to events like birthday parties or weddings or nightclubs and he's acting like an asshole towards you? I've been there and let me tell you it's not pleasant. And they can always make promises about not drinking and trying to change but OOPS just had a few drinks and you're back to square one. It's much harder to get doctors to take these issues seriously as they are not constantly drinking.
Bro. She is probably cheating.
Wtf, call the fking cops and get away from that crazy bitch. Fking emotional abuse too, telling you she'll harm herself if you leave. Call the cops. Call whoever you know from her family and let them know about the crazy shit she's doing and has told you. Let them deal with it.
I might agree, but he's still very young. He could be committed to her and just be uncomfortable with the idea of marriage.
For what it's worth, I felt similarly when I was his age (not liking the very concept of having the government involved in my very personal business). But you grow up and you learn that marriage offers legal rights and protections, and your priorities change.
Are u fr? Don't give her those tickets man.