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I think it’s normal to always remember about the one that got away. It’s the first love that can never be forgotten, and I think he’s letting himself get too reminiscent. I think the duration of the relationship at your current state could’ve been a trigger which he needs to work on. You should establish healthy boundaries with your husband for yourself, where he shouldn’t be making you feel like you should empathize or listen to this. Your partner is supposed to focus on the current relationship. He needs to either work on these feelings himself or seek a therapist.
As for the porn aspect I think he has an unhealthy addiction. I’m not sure when this started but these feelings could’ve been a trigger. Porn is scientifically known to make people less empathetic so I assume that’s why he’s so comfortable just talking about these things without regard for your feelings. He needs to quit for the betterment of himself and the relationship he has with you. I think you should have an open conversation about how his porn addiction makes you feel as well as what he’s said about his ex.
First off, “Alison” should contact the manufacturer of her heart medication because often times individual deals can be struck with pharma corps that are significantly cheaper than going through the markup of a pharmacy. But beyond that it sounds like “Alison” is going to have be able to make enough money to not be at all reliant on “Cary”. This may mean her working a lucrative job she doesn't love, putting in tons of overtime or both of you moving to a city that's cheaper than “big city C”. It's pretty customary for young adults to become financially self supporting once they're out of college and working. So create a situation where your girlfriend won't have to ask her mother for money. Good luck.
Just let him know that you are not allowing him to disrespect you or your feelings from here on out, and if he has a problem with that, then you do what needs to be done…
Don't hesitate to reach out anytime for advice and you can pm me too…
Do you think you're the only person in the world who has to cope with a stressful combination of work, childcare and household responsibility? It doesn't justify yelling.
Do the years when she was functional and probably doing a whole lot more than you're giving her credit for count for nothing?
The fact that you're even thanking these things isn't fair to your partner at all. Feeling like you can find someone better, yet staying with him, is 100% using him. Also, it sounds like: you will eventually resent/think less of him for not being your “provider” like the men in your background, like you're unhappy with your sex life and feel you should want to jump his bones, like you feel you're missing out because you haven't slept with a bunch of guys, like you think a relationship is butterflies 24/7…this all points to having an extremely immature view of marriage and might not be ready for it. If you stay with this man, the chances of you cheating are very high because you will never feel satisfied. You're describing a great guy who loves you-do you believe he deserves a woman who is questioning marrying him because she thinks she can do better but she might stick around? He definitely can do better, you should let him.
No, not end it because I asked to follow her, because after months of knowing I had an account, still chose to send posts through WA? I said why are you sending posts, I have an account? So kinda forced her hand, not meant, just asking, so she asked my account, and I said, well why now, rather than just sending me posts indirectly, that's what made her said “forget it” but immediately look up my Instagram, troll it, find an ex, confront me, I deleted said ex, blocked her, made my own account private, but she still hasn't requested me, I won't, as I don't want to appear as I'm checking up on her, which I wouldn't be anyway, just she's never off it, but won't request me, just making me wonder why?
Naked same. I’m a heavy smoker but 100% always sober at work. Fuuuuck being stupid for my work day. I wanna bust that out so I can go home, toke up, and relax lol
I think it’s normal to always remember about the one that got away. It’s the first love that can never be forgotten, and I think he’s letting himself get too reminiscent. I think the duration of the relationship at your current state could’ve been a trigger which he needs to work on. You should establish healthy boundaries with your husband for yourself, where he shouldn’t be making you feel like you should empathize or listen to this. Your partner is supposed to focus on the current relationship. He needs to either work on these feelings himself or seek a therapist.
As for the porn aspect I think he has an unhealthy addiction. I’m not sure when this started but these feelings could’ve been a trigger. Porn is scientifically known to make people less empathetic so I assume that’s why he’s so comfortable just talking about these things without regard for your feelings. He needs to quit for the betterment of himself and the relationship he has with you. I think you should have an open conversation about how his porn addiction makes you feel as well as what he’s said about his ex.
First off, “Alison” should contact the manufacturer of her heart medication because often times individual deals can be struck with pharma corps that are significantly cheaper than going through the markup of a pharmacy. But beyond that it sounds like “Alison” is going to have be able to make enough money to not be at all reliant on “Cary”. This may mean her working a lucrative job she doesn't love, putting in tons of overtime or both of you moving to a city that's cheaper than “big city C”. It's pretty customary for young adults to become financially self supporting once they're out of college and working. So create a situation where your girlfriend won't have to ask her mother for money. Good luck.
Just let him know that you are not allowing him to disrespect you or your feelings from here on out, and if he has a problem with that, then you do what needs to be done…
Don't hesitate to reach out anytime for advice and you can pm me too…
Really?!
I doubt it’s anything at all but just ask dude.
“Oh, what’s a blue heart mean?”
?
I agree I was just drunk as fuck
Do you think you're the only person in the world who has to cope with a stressful combination of work, childcare and household responsibility? It doesn't justify yelling.
Do the years when she was functional and probably doing a whole lot more than you're giving her credit for count for nothing?
The fact that you're even thanking these things isn't fair to your partner at all. Feeling like you can find someone better, yet staying with him, is 100% using him. Also, it sounds like: you will eventually resent/think less of him for not being your “provider” like the men in your background, like you're unhappy with your sex life and feel you should want to jump his bones, like you feel you're missing out because you haven't slept with a bunch of guys, like you think a relationship is butterflies 24/7…this all points to having an extremely immature view of marriage and might not be ready for it. If you stay with this man, the chances of you cheating are very high because you will never feel satisfied. You're describing a great guy who loves you-do you believe he deserves a woman who is questioning marrying him because she thinks she can do better but she might stick around? He definitely can do better, you should let him.
What the fuck are you hoping to achieve here with this thread?
Just leave. She’s cheating.
“not to detract from the point”
proceeds to spout a bunch of shit opinions that have nothing to do from the question being asked
No, not end it because I asked to follow her, because after months of knowing I had an account, still chose to send posts through WA? I said why are you sending posts, I have an account? So kinda forced her hand, not meant, just asking, so she asked my account, and I said, well why now, rather than just sending me posts indirectly, that's what made her said “forget it” but immediately look up my Instagram, troll it, find an ex, confront me, I deleted said ex, blocked her, made my own account private, but she still hasn't requested me, I won't, as I don't want to appear as I'm checking up on her, which I wouldn't be anyway, just she's never off it, but won't request me, just making me wonder why?
Naked same. I’m a heavy smoker but 100% always sober at work. Fuuuuck being stupid for my work day. I wanna bust that out so I can go home, toke up, and relax lol
She sounds like an average snob. I'd take you over her any day. Why are you with her?
4 years? That's what you're mad about ? You got bigger problems dude.
not liking same sex marriage is homophobic
Completely agree, when you’re having children you should probably be getting your shit together not dropping acid.