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Date: October 26, 2022
Thank you, ill ask my doctor about it as well
his sperm, his choice. this doesnt affect OP in any way. it would be considered controlling if she were to try and manipulate him
He just told you he doesn’t want to be alone… he doesn’t love you. girl, leave. Hes going to do it again. Stop asking why he did what he did… it doesn’t matter. move on.
To me, asking such a personal, sexual question on a first date is a red flag. I think she’s dodged a bullet here.
If it’s not every damn sentence and no need for it it’s trashy. Saying Fuck isn’t trashy. It’s saying it when it’s not necessary that’s trashy.
My post is quite incoherent. My apologies and thank you for your response.
I have told him that I don’t need solutions and that I just want his support and to feel heard.
However his body language is very cold and almost sighing. He makes comments like ‘what do you want me to do so you don’t kick off again’ ‘what do you need from me’ – the first statement upsets me, his dog about me kicking off puts a sour taste in my mouth. However I answer the question and I say I just want to be heard and reassured/talk through it.
I want to add that I never ‘kick off’, or raise my voice or shout. Kicking off to him is crying or getting visibly upset.
He hates giving reassurance, doesn’t believe it’s his job. I don’t ask for it a lot – as I believe it has to come from within, but it’s nice to hear it sometimes.
How did your sex life go from dead bedroom to OK in 11 days? Your previous posts paint a problematic picture, your marriage seems to have flatlined and I totally understand while you think you are getting set up. I guarantee your attendance is not required and she will be going regardless.
As is appropriate? If genders were reversed this sub would be chanting “make him pay.”
maybe a generational thing then.. my family is a LOT younger than his.
I've definitely considered that as a possibility, especially with all the time she has been spending with friends recently. Would it be a good idea to mention that to her or to trust her and hope that's not the case?
You need therapy to help you heal and I'm so sorry you're so angry. As for 'revenge' part, there's no better revenge than living well.
But if you're that adamant of revenge…. Idk if this still works, but in the past, there used to be websites where you can 'warn people' off a certain people. Well, you can put in his name for it and how he pursued a married woman and how that married woman and he had an affair in those type of websites, I suppose. At least, you're not lying about it because it really happened.
The only reason I know this is because a friend of mine…her name was dragged through the mud via these websites. When you google her name, these websites show up, complete with her name, photograph (not sexual, just a photograph taken from her public FB profile) and numerous false and 'nasty' sex stories about her (bestiality, animal abuse, etc). Due to those websites popping up when they google her name, she was passed over for promotion or she was even requested to step down from a position in a non-profit organization.
She said the person who did this was her enemy–who happened to be the affair partner of her husband. She used to be best friend with this person, and her husband and her 'best friend' had a 3 years long extramarital affair. When my friend found out, of course she cut her so-called 'friend' off their lives, but she chose to not divorce her husband over that (she claimed this is due to them having kids and she wanted to work it out now).
After this person (affair partner of her husband) was cut off from her life, suddenly disturbing stories about my friend popped up on that type of websites. Disgusting bestiality stories and many different sex stories about her cropped up. And no matter what my friend did, the stories remained afloat on-line forever. For her, the issue was that not only the stories were false, but they also caused her obstacles in her professional life.
I haven't talked to her in awhile, but the last time I heard from her, she was actually pursuing a lawsuit against the Affair partner for writing those stories, but it would be very naked to prove it's her who did that, despite that she's the only 'enemy' she had in her life.
Good luck, OP.
he had a double life there that I wasn't aware of and that he never told me about. Gradually I discovered the issue of flirting, of the deleted dms so that I could never see it (omission) and also the lie came when he told me that his twitter was something professional, which was not the fact. He basically used it to chat and flirt with girls. And since there was all that initial lying, I don't know if there really wasn't sexual content or even if I didn't meet them in person.
Yea I dont want to diminish her thinking and come across like I know what she wants, and thats all on me for making it sound like that. I wanted her to know that want she really thinks and wants does matter, always. Thats the point of being a couple, working together. But I do see how just buying the house eliminates that in her head. I guess to me buying the house wasnt a big deal, its just a place to sleep in. What matters is who you create a home with, which was always her. But I never broke her trust as you say. She knew well and many many years back about my desire to get a house before marriage. She never said anything to it.
You need to take care of yourself and your mental health first
Do you feel that he's leaching on you for money? You need to take that for consideration, if you're giving him money and he's throwing a temper tantrum when you don't, he's using you as his sugar mommy. A relationship needs support, if he's not supporting you how can you develop a healthy relationship?
If you'd want to keep going with your relationship stop giving him so much, of your money and yourself, and treat him the way he is treating you. You need to focus on yourself and school
Many women don't see the sabotage when it's happening as women will often make it seem like they're being supportive.