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Date: October 5, 2022
You are right. I’m a giant piece of shit. I know this. This my bed and I have to lay in it. I do need to reevaluate my life. I am making all the wrong decisions and I can see them. I just need to stop.
Well she has always claimed to have zero contact with him… so that’s the only thing that confused me. they were together around 4 months, that was a few months ago
You sure seem to have a habit of making excuses.
Well he is the jock type so maybe.
And this comment is exactly why this sub is a joke.
Porn addiction? Based off what? He likes his ass played with? Give me a break.
Yet – for OP the pain is fresh. Time fixed things for her, but not for him. She lied every second, minute, hour, day and year for 10 years by not telling him and basically keep cheating.
So you're tell OP to just “move on” . Its almost like saying – “Ah man you broke your arm, just heal… I had my arm broken 10 years ago and its all fine now” .
Trust is like virginity – you can maintain it but never regain it.
Let’s put it this way: your wife sees you supporting someone who broke their vows. You disagree with breaking vows, but not if this person does it. This person will most likely be single soon. This person, who you support, is now known to your wife for being okay with breaking vows instead of working with their spouse to solve the issues in their marriage. You support someone breaking vows because they wouldn’t communicate.
If I was your wife, I would be pretty upset too.
Everyone is saying I’m in the wrong for doing it but a select few people
I’m so sorry, I can understand the codependency you had with one another. Ultimately you will feel sad for some time. You will pour over the good times. But you made the right decision for both your sakes to exit the marriage. Hopefully he is able to heal himself and thrive as well. Healing and thriving will be so freeing for you, your best years are still ahead of you. Focus on you, share your story, help others. In doing so you heal yourself ❤️
I wouldnt say fucking idiot, but yes, i think you should be careful.
This is the kind of advice that sounds reasonable and checks all the boxes but always burns you in the end. The biggest lie in relationships is that people want honesty; they don't, they want ignorance (ignorance is bliss).
They aren't friends. They want you to be miserable like them.
They will never seek to comfort you, they've never asked about your feelings.
Never hang out with them alone, only group settings.
Shut them down when they try to isolate you from charming people.
One thing to remember is that others have insecurities about their imperfections too. And it’s always so easy to see imperfections in oneself while not noticing or even caring about them in others. It can be naked to expose your insecurities but that is all part of being intimate with someone. You should only do what you’re comfortable with and if it is bothering you that much to the point of decision paralysis the best thing to do is talk to your partner. Chances are they will understand how you feel and if you are seeing a good person they will do their best to ease any worries you may have and reassure you that who you are and what you look like is why they chose to be with you in the first place.
Try to give yourself some more credit for the things that make you beautiful rather than focusing on little imperfections – which everyone has – that stress you out. Best of luck.
Read all of my comments there and the ones in different subs and compare it to this post. I talk about my promiscuity there. I wrote those comments from the perspective of where i was prior to my current relationship. So yeah i fudged the timeline in a comment on a post about being single. I was single for 11 years and was out being wild.
Actually read my comment history. In different subs i say the same thing. The only thing that does not line up is the time period of that one post. I answered that post in present tense instead of past tense because it asked “why are you still single” and i wrote it from the perspective of where i was prior to this. But actually read the comments I've made and they line up to this post with the exception of me writing that comment in a present tense
I did consider this, however when I booked the trip it was a treat for her as she didn't have the cash.
We broke up yesterday and she said that she didn't have the money to even pay for a night out for herself, so I'm inclined to believe she's not gonna have the cash for what I payed for as I went a bit over board and spent 4x what she wanted as a treat for her.