What have you done to continue romancing her? In the past, they called this wooing. So, keep wooing. If she responds, great. If not, that's her decision.
You need a lawyer. It's absolutely worth it. She cannot threaten your son like that. You do not have to stay with her and your son should know the truth about his awful mother.
Eh, I remember being young and acting out when I didn’t like something the family did. It came from a place of hurt and my family picked up on that. She moved out because the ball was already rolling with how she was feeling. She didn’t even want to stay in the same house as her parents and sibling, you really think she reached that conclusion solely on her own? Very unlikely, she probably felt less welcomed and wanted to leave
Yeah, there's not really much I can say to that. I definitely agree with everything you said. If it hasn't changed so far it's probably not going to. I'm not asking for too much, I'm just asking someone who asked me to me in this relationship to be present and not treat me like a roommate they get to have sex with every couple of weeks
Thank you for this. I did promise her and I don’t blame her or judge her because it was in the past but it’s just something I can’t seem to ignore and I just want advice on how can I move on without having the picture in my head. You get what I mean?
He denied sleeping with us both and told me he was just there for her emotionally as a friend because he felt so bad for her. And from what I’ve gathered he does want to help people because he has a kind heart, he has been through a lot himself and has had a terrible childhood.
I feel like he told me about the instagram photos because he is actually being honest with me. Why would he post romantic photos of us if he still wants to sleep around? I can feel how much he loves me and I can see how with me he is different. I just don’t understand how all this can be an act.
Very sensibly advice. I'm surprised the vet didn't prescribe some mild tranquilizer. Anything ranging from feliway through to actual Valium is sometimes given to animals that are anxious. This could have solved so many problems.
It's ridiculous for her to come to your work. I understand why you hid. You shouldn't have to be in that situation. What did she think was going to happen? You'd talk to her while selling her clothing?
Of course she should call you to ask if you'd like to talk and then if you were ok with talking, then you find a time.
If you're worried she'll come back, you can give her a call and tell her how you feel. That can be as simple as a “Please don't come to my place of work. I'm not willing to talk to you about our relationship.” Or you can give her a chance to let you know the topic of what she'd like to discuss. Set your boundary as you wish.
Seems like he either sent that to you by mistake or someone else took his phone and sent it. If he typed those words in his phone and sent them, even if they weren’t meant for you, dump him immediately. If it was someone else this situation is possibility salvageable if he will cut that person off entirely.
I was 18 . Yeah it's the only option I got, but I got confused that's all
What have you done to continue romancing her? In the past, they called this wooing. So, keep wooing. If she responds, great. If not, that's her decision.
You need a lawyer. It's absolutely worth it. She cannot threaten your son like that. You do not have to stay with her and your son should know the truth about his awful mother.
Eh, I remember being young and acting out when I didn’t like something the family did. It came from a place of hurt and my family picked up on that. She moved out because the ball was already rolling with how she was feeling. She didn’t even want to stay in the same house as her parents and sibling, you really think she reached that conclusion solely on her own? Very unlikely, she probably felt less welcomed and wanted to leave
Yeah, there's not really much I can say to that. I definitely agree with everything you said. If it hasn't changed so far it's probably not going to. I'm not asking for too much, I'm just asking someone who asked me to me in this relationship to be present and not treat me like a roommate they get to have sex with every couple of weeks
Thank you for this. I did promise her and I don’t blame her or judge her because it was in the past but it’s just something I can’t seem to ignore and I just want advice on how can I move on without having the picture in my head. You get what I mean?
He denied sleeping with us both and told me he was just there for her emotionally as a friend because he felt so bad for her. And from what I’ve gathered he does want to help people because he has a kind heart, he has been through a lot himself and has had a terrible childhood.
I feel like he told me about the instagram photos because he is actually being honest with me. Why would he post romantic photos of us if he still wants to sleep around? I can feel how much he loves me and I can see how with me he is different. I just don’t understand how all this can be an act.
Very sensibly advice. I'm surprised the vet didn't prescribe some mild tranquilizer. Anything ranging from feliway through to actual Valium is sometimes given to animals that are anxious. This could have solved so many problems.
It's ridiculous for her to come to your work. I understand why you hid. You shouldn't have to be in that situation. What did she think was going to happen? You'd talk to her while selling her clothing?
Of course she should call you to ask if you'd like to talk and then if you were ok with talking, then you find a time.
If you're worried she'll come back, you can give her a call and tell her how you feel. That can be as simple as a “Please don't come to my place of work. I'm not willing to talk to you about our relationship.” Or you can give her a chance to let you know the topic of what she'd like to discuss. Set your boundary as you wish.
Seems like he either sent that to you by mistake or someone else took his phone and sent it. If he typed those words in his phone and sent them, even if they weren’t meant for you, dump him immediately. If it was someone else this situation is possibility salvageable if he will cut that person off entirely.