Then you'll find out about other men and oh babe I'm sooo sorry, it was only those two I promise!
The man couldn't be the ✨definition✨ of trickle truth more if he tried. Every step you have to fight to learn the truth until there's no more evidence and he stops “coming clean”. He's for the streets. Doesn't matter gender he cheated.
Im on the opposite end of your situation. I’m 28 M and I’m debating on leaving my fiancé. We have a 1-1/2 daughter who means everything to me. I just feel very unappreciated, undesired, and the spark I felt between has dwindled recently. I’m not sure if this is a phase or something I’ve felt for a long time. We’ve been together for 6 years and we have fought but I’ve never felt as strongly about it as I do now. The main reason I’m not leaving her is because I love waking up and seeing my daughter first thing in the morning and putting her to bed every night. And other is she is in the middle of nursing school and i don’t want to mess that up for her. I don’t feel the spark anymore but I do still care for her and at least when she finishes she will have a good job and be able to provide for our daughter with me. She will finish in June so it isn’t that far from now. I can deal with it until then. No one wants to come home after a 7am-6pm shift to an argument, I don’t want to have to be the one to always initiate every intimate interaction, I don’t want to be in a relationship when everything is “tit for tat”.
He’s embarrassed by only sleeping with 20 people……
It doesn’t matter if the number is 1, all that matters is the connection between the people when they are together. If he cares for the number, then he doesn’t care about the person, and likely doesn’t care for you.
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My father is a diagnosed sociopath (ASPD). He trapped my mom with me and isolated her from her family. According to her, his personality flipped like a light switch when she caught him cheating. He regularly physically, emotionally, and sexually abused her in front of me. She finally left when he knocked up his mistress.
But her leaving didn’t mean the abuse stopped. We were his property. As punishment, he tried to rape her minor sister, destroyed my grandma’s vehicle by pouring something in the gas tank, tampered with the brakes on my mom’s car (almost killed us), and then suddenly demanded supervision so that he could hurt me in order to hurt her. He was moldering me in ways that I could not physically prove and had the court thinking I was poisoned against him. I tried killing myself at 8 years old. We fled the state when I was 10 to get away.
He married his pregnant mistress, they had a bunch of kids, and they have all been abused. The adult children do not speak to them.
You are in danger if you think he has empathy for you. You are not special. You cannot fix him.
Then you'll find out about other men and oh babe I'm sooo sorry, it was only those two I promise!
The man couldn't be the ✨definition✨ of trickle truth more if he tried. Every step you have to fight to learn the truth until there's no more evidence and he stops “coming clean”. He's for the streets. Doesn't matter gender he cheated.
Im on the opposite end of your situation. I’m 28 M and I’m debating on leaving my fiancé. We have a 1-1/2 daughter who means everything to me. I just feel very unappreciated, undesired, and the spark I felt between has dwindled recently. I’m not sure if this is a phase or something I’ve felt for a long time. We’ve been together for 6 years and we have fought but I’ve never felt as strongly about it as I do now. The main reason I’m not leaving her is because I love waking up and seeing my daughter first thing in the morning and putting her to bed every night. And other is she is in the middle of nursing school and i don’t want to mess that up for her. I don’t feel the spark anymore but I do still care for her and at least when she finishes she will have a good job and be able to provide for our daughter with me. She will finish in June so it isn’t that far from now. I can deal with it until then. No one wants to come home after a 7am-6pm shift to an argument, I don’t want to have to be the one to always initiate every intimate interaction, I don’t want to be in a relationship when everything is “tit for tat”.
You need to leave now.
He’s embarrassed by only sleeping with 20 people……
It doesn’t matter if the number is 1, all that matters is the connection between the people when they are together. If he cares for the number, then he doesn’t care about the person, and likely doesn’t care for you.
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He needs to get out and press charges. Who knows what could’ve happened to him after getting hit with the base?
Has she been crying often over the last seven years? Did she just find out they died? Does she normally cry easily?
My father is a diagnosed sociopath (ASPD). He trapped my mom with me and isolated her from her family. According to her, his personality flipped like a light switch when she caught him cheating. He regularly physically, emotionally, and sexually abused her in front of me. She finally left when he knocked up his mistress.
But her leaving didn’t mean the abuse stopped. We were his property. As punishment, he tried to rape her minor sister, destroyed my grandma’s vehicle by pouring something in the gas tank, tampered with the brakes on my mom’s car (almost killed us), and then suddenly demanded supervision so that he could hurt me in order to hurt her. He was moldering me in ways that I could not physically prove and had the court thinking I was poisoned against him. I tried killing myself at 8 years old. We fled the state when I was 10 to get away.
He married his pregnant mistress, they had a bunch of kids, and they have all been abused. The adult children do not speak to them.
You are in danger if you think he has empathy for you. You are not special. You cannot fix him.
He's too pathetic to break up w you. Dump him. Don't talk to him about anything, just msg him that its over and block him.