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Date: October 8, 2022
I do not have friends like I said I'm socially stunted and very strange sorry.
You're just realizing you've got internalized biphobia.
When your boyfriend told you he's bisexual, nothing about him changed. Not his personality, his relationship with you, or his attitude towards other men or women. The change was not him, it occurred inside you.
For some reason, bisexual men are not attractive to you. While you do have the right to only date straight men and you should never be forced to date outside of those standards, your preferences ARE biphobic.
Imagine someone that dates men or women, but not if they're black. That's racist. Imagine if someone dates men or women, but not if they're noticeably foreign from their country. That's xenophobic. Imagine if someone dates men or women, but not if they're trans. That's transphobic.
All those preferences, as fucked up as they might sound, are valid. As long as you remain civil and respectful towards these groups of people, NO ONE should force you to date them, and so you should not be shamed for your preferences, no matter where they come from. You're not (directly) harming anyone, since you support and consider LGBT people to be as worthy of respect as straight people, you're just excluding them from your individual dating pool. You don't promote discrimination, but you practice it alone under specific circumstances.
No one can force you to date bisexual men. But it is inherently biphobic, there's no way for it to not be.
Your only options are (1) for you to figure out exactly why and what aspects of bisexuality make you not feel attracted to him, and actively work to change them, either by talking to a therapist, other bisexual people, partners of bisexual people, or your boyfriend. This will require you to uncover your prejudice and assumptions of bisexual men, and it won't be pretty. Or (2) if you think there's nothing wrong with what you think, or it's more trouble than it's worth, you can simply leave him. He deserves someone who accepts him fully for who he is, and you should be with someone that suits your needs.
Jeeez, I can definitely tell you’re from an older generation from this comment.
She's in her 30s..not sure if you consider that old tho. Lol
That said, I agree with you. Calling OP's gf a 'skank' is gross.
If she gets back in touch in 3 days, weeks, months, years, then respond from where you are in that moment.
Not a bad way to go about it. I just hate the uncertainty of it all. Thanks.
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It’s so weird, you might not believe this but your sister was on this very sub earlier posting her side of this situation earlier and asking for advice. If you want to check comments/advice that was given her, you can actually find that post on your profile as well.
None of this makes sense. How are 28 together 3.5 years but known each other since your 15 yet you’ve never met his friends or family?
Because that’s how controlling, insecure people behave.
You should talk to him but at the end of the day if you truly want kids, you should end the relationship. You shouldn’t wait around until he’s ready or hoping he’ll change his mind. Good luck.