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Leefoxx, 23 y.o.
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Date: October 5, 2022
Leefoxx, 23 y.o.
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Oh, just say it straight up. “You know how you would have pranked me with laxatives? I want you to know that I never want to be pranked. I need to be with someone I trust and if you prank me, I can't trust you. Even if you think it's funny, just don't do it.”
I would also tell him it's a dealbreaker and you'd leave him, but only if that's true.
You can reinforce it every now and again when you see a prank video together. “You know, I really appreciate that you don't do things like that to me. It's really disrespectful and I feel awful for the person.”
Sorry to hear that. Ultimately it's unlikely you can change his mind.
I’d stop trying to text, call or get a response from him. Enjoy your Christmas with you family. Just cause his phones at his mates, doesn’t mean he is. He could be getting it on with whomever whilst his mates have his phone at theirs for cover. Who knows. But this isn’t a today problem. I’d put the phone down, and just enjoy your day. For those saying he could be in hospital, etc. if there was a legit emergency, wouldn’t his mates contact you? The phones on and at his mates? They know of you right? Kind of an automatic thing to do when someone’s in hospital or whatever contact partner and family.
Tomorrow, after you’ve had a great family event and day. Have a think about if you want someone whose going to just abandon you and your plans at a drop of a hat and not even give the kindness of messaging you.
If his not showing you proof of a hospital stay when he does contact you. I wouldn’t even respond more then “I’m glad to know you’re alive. It’s a really shit thing to do to leave someone abandoned like that, no message, nothing. Glad you’re not dead in a ditch. Have a good life.” Block and move onwards. If not, not replying at all.
I’ve been there, he was having adult time with a person you pay for such things.
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This has happened to me when I wanted the girl to split the bill. Not bullying
You embarassed yourself with your crappy approach. Are you an MLM hun or brobot trying to pitch a pyramid scheme in a way this girl wasn't supposed to be able to say “no”? No wonder her answer was awkward and nervous. You don't ask someone out by assuming they'll be “free” for you and want to know when; next time ask her if she'd LIKE to meet you for coffee sometime.
And whatever you do next, leave the girl alone now and don't bring it up again.
Is she on hormonal birth control? Does she have anxiety/depression? Is she stressed from work/school/family? Those are things that can affect her libido. If she isn't comfortable going to bone town in the family homes try to rent a hotel room for the privacy.
You're her first partner. Does she even know what she likes in bed? Does she need to be romanced first or get in the right headspace first? Maybe she's feeling too anxious or nervous to get in the moment. Does intimate touch feel clinical or does it feel exciting to her? What turns her on?
If she hasn't enjoyed the sex in the past, that can make her not want to seek it out in the future. If the only time you are physically affectionate is when you want sex, that could lead her to avoid any other physical affection with you in fear of having to put out after “leading you on”.
Also..what do you yourself get out of sex? What does sex mean to you? Intimacy? Pleasure? Connection? Maybe try to find different ways to achieve those goals outside of sex. What does sex mean to her?
Y'all are still young and coming off of teenage hormones. You can't expect your libido to stay the same as when you were in HS. It's more likely to change and fluctuate as you get older. Life happens and there's a lot of stressors that can put a damper on libido or just make sex not a priority (grief/surgery/etc)