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not u and me having the same dilemmas ??
I’m not married with kids so I have no advice other than check out r/sexlessmarriage
I'm betting he is there, sadly.
Then those aren't the ones you love, because you don't betray those people. You've got messed up morals if you think betrayal and love go hand in hand.
I wholeheartedly agree with you. I just commented about how my husband was never all that keen to get married because of the day and age we live! in, similar arguments to OP's partner. Like your husband, mine saw it was important to me so we got married. It was very much a day about us not just the whole “all about the bride” thing. We wouldn't change a thing, even the little hiccups. My hubby also teared up a bit which was nice.
Honeslty I stayed bc he has good qualities but really it’s not enough definitely gonna end it
Even if that’s true isn’t she the idiot for staying with him then? ?
You seem to be focussed on not wanting her to hate you and reassuring yourself you don’t need much. This relationship is one sided where you have supported your girlfriend and she does nothing in return. You have no intimacy, she doesn’t even cook you a meal. You have simply become her carer. She could seek medical help for her mental health but she doesn’t even do that. You enabling her isn’t helpful in this situation.
Before breaking up with her, have you considered asking her how things are going and what she needs to be able to commit to you? Have you asked her how you can best support her in her healing?
If you just want out, just tell her you’ve thought a lot about things and you’re unhappy because ________. You think you’ll be better off apart, but you’d like to keep,the door open in the future.
She probably won’t respond well. She probably will have someone else in her life at so,e point, but you broke with her, so that’s not really your business.
it's irrelevant because it doesn't factor into the point that i made.
in response, you distracted from the point, libeled me, insulted me. by reddit rules, you lost.
I’d be kind of blunt. “Hey I don’t know you so I’m wondering what all the banter is about? Since this is linked in I assumed this was about networking but it seems to be going beyond that. What is your interest here?
I'm not trolling, I'm asking if I could get into trouble driving past someone's street that I no longer talk to. Because some people might think it's stalking.
At one end of the spectrum is the person that he was. On the other end is the person that he is. You're asking him to be somewhere at maybe 70%
Here's the problem- at some point in that spectrum is the line where you leave him. And he's terrified of crossing that line. So he's going to try to stay as far as possible from it. You're asking him to get closer to that line
One thing you can try is to very clearly communicate where that line is, but even then he's going to be watching his behavior like a hawk
You could try to reassure him that you won't leave him, but you've already shown that you're willing to do so
I agree, I still go to dinner with my friends, sometimes we have a small getaway trip together, my hair dresser moved 45 minutes away and I still go to her. For all of these and similar things, I don't ask “permission”, but I do update my husband to make sure I'm not over scheduling our plans. Someone's gotta take care of the kids, pets, house, whatever and me not including my spouse in those plans would be very frustrating, and vice versa.
Yeah I guess we would need more info on her suggesting places to eat. Because if she just wants to go out together, I feel like he can find a single thing to like instead of always having to get take out instead. But if she wants him to eat what she’s getting or force him to like it then that’s an issue. I just feel like a lot of info is being left out
It shouldn't be this difficult when you're still early days.
You’re overthinking it. Go get your watch or whatever it was