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then let him be wit those women. leave him. if he thinks he is too good for you, he'd treat you worse and worse as the time goes by. get financially ready to be alone. why are you staying in a relationship that give you gain nothing from?
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“I’m so not angry I was dumped, he’s angry for dumping me”
Have you considered the possibility that you may need a… Rage Room? I could google it-admittedly it sounds self explanatory. But you sound like you’re struggling to intellectualize being rejected rather confront the negative feelings head-on.
Tell them that she's uncomfortable about it and to not post stuff about her?
Dude, come on…. Just search around on this sub and look at the horror stories from threesomes and open relationship escapades gone wrong.
At first you’re talking about being soulmates and how well everything is going. Focus on that being the priority, prioritize each other. Figure out how to fulfill your fantasies with her l, maybe try role-playing or something like that.
Once a cheater, always a cheater. As she has proven several times. Probably several more you're not aware of as well.
manipulating who sweetie? i just want to become friends with him but i don’t want that to ruin mop and i’d friendship which is why i wanted to know how to become friends faster
You sound like your own worst enemy.
You've been together for a decade. That should logically mean you're (the collective you – as in the both of you) way beyond the point of not knowing what you're supposed to be doing. With no other context, it'd be easy to look at this entirely surface level in that he made a move and you essentially told him no. Let's assume you weren't in the mood, whatever it was.
You continued to be cuddly. Pretty straightforward behavior. But here's where we'd need to know more about your relationship. Does cuddling always mean one or both of you are hinting at making things sexual? If so, maybe you stopping him but then continuing came off as confusing given the dynamic of your relationship. You'll have to let us know.
But then he gets up in a huff essentially. Says he's upset and didn't know what you wanted. That brings me back to being completely confused that a situation like this even exists after a decade. Like you don't know each other. Like you don't communicate at all.
That's when it gets further strange, because the situation as it happened was entirely in fact surface level. He needs you to explicitly say “don't do this?” If you were early into dating, maybe that'd be understandable despite “stop that” being perfectly clear. But once again, you're 10 years in.
Honestly she needs to find someone who is ready to be an adult and you need to decide how much longer you want to be an adult acting like a child. Insurance takes 15 minutes to set up for example. This is just weaponized incompetence and she would be stupid to move in with you and take over being your mother, which is exactly what you doing do to her
why would he ask when he thought the kids weren't his? He didn't even know the pregnancy even resulted in kids. These aren't arguments, tehy are wishful thinking. If he had tried to pursue her further she'd have claimed he stalked her.
OP is up shit creek without a paddle if he kids are indeed the ex'
I'm married to someone similar – he takes pride in being straightforward and honest, and also shows his love through actions. It hurt sometimes that he didn't express undying love or get sentimental and honestly, it still does sometimes. But we've been together for 11 years now, married for 9 years, and I feel truly grateful for the way he is.
I was in an 8 year relationship before I met my husband with a sweet talking guy and it felt very intense, but he never lived up to his word and was unfaithful too. It was all talk.
I trust my husband and know he can't bare lies and being fake. He's been there for me during a chronic illness and me being unemployed. He is super loyal and caring, just not great with fluffy words. It's much more deep and real. I've realised that actions rather than words are a million times more important in a marriage and that I should concentrate on that.
Why in the world would you stay with someone who is verbally and emotionally abusing you? This guy sucks a bag of dicks honestly. You’re better off dumping him and finding someone who actually cares about you. I’m mean good lord… calling you fat, telling you he doesn’t find you attractive unless you fuck someone else…. He’s a piece of shit!
Hey there. I recently got out of that emotionless feeling. Therapy has help so much.
Go to therapy for yourself, even if she decides to end it. Trust me, your whole life will feel less heavy when you can work through very hot things without burning down relationships
I mean well, even if he comes back you would be a chump to let him. Move on and close the door
I’ve done the getting back together thing and it didnt go well. But tbh this isn’t about our issues or anyone else’s- it works for some it doesn’t for others So lets talk about your set up. I mean, staying one hour away and not meeting for a week or two just doesn’t seem to be an issue worth breaking up for- not only is it not a huge distance, going a week or two without meeting is not particularly a huge issue right? I mean you can face time, talk on calls etc I think there was a way bigger issue under the surface with you two that you aren’t addressing. Getting back together needs you to have a detailed conversation and see where you end up
This right here.