As the beyond traumatized oldest of 9 from a father who would describe his “success as a father” in a scarily identical way to how you have worded this post and your comments, sincerely fuck you. You don’t realize the damage you’ve likely already done, but you will.
People can change, but only if they want to, and only if they put in the work to do so.
If he's willing to put in the work starting right now, and show consistent positive results, then it might be worth pursuing and continuing, depending on how you feel about his qualities.
If he's not willing to put in that time and effort for you, then you shouldn't be willing to put in any more time for him because doing so will only lower your bar of expectations (and what you deem as acceptable behaviour/treatment) further and further until it's below sea level.
Don't become another bullied and abused partner; you deserve better.
This is where I spent all of my XP points in life. ?
As the beyond traumatized oldest of 9 from a father who would describe his “success as a father” in a scarily identical way to how you have worded this post and your comments, sincerely fuck you. You don’t realize the damage you’ve likely already done, but you will.
She is 36 trying to have a kid with u, she is crazy and clearly manipulative run the fuck aqay
This is the best response, OP.
People can change, but only if they want to, and only if they put in the work to do so.
If he's willing to put in the work starting right now, and show consistent positive results, then it might be worth pursuing and continuing, depending on how you feel about his qualities.
If he's not willing to put in that time and effort for you, then you shouldn't be willing to put in any more time for him because doing so will only lower your bar of expectations (and what you deem as acceptable behaviour/treatment) further and further until it's below sea level.
Don't become another bullied and abused partner; you deserve better.